"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What she sees in your eyes!?

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Sup All'

First post here, so this is the formal "hello"... lol
Good to see people getting their game tight, and and sharing the gems.


Anyways... was curious to see what people's opinions were on this one.

-Was wondering what you think a girl should see in your eyes? Say when you first meet her!? The 2 sides of the coin would be... to let her see, that damn she's beautiful sexy, shimmering in light, and you want to ransackle it. Or, that your the man, and she ain't Sh*t.

I think either way could seduce. In that, if she sees herself through your eyes, as this glimmering goddess that you want to move planets for to wax... then it will have an almost Rake effect on her. She'll be mesmerized by how beautifully you see her, and love you for it. She'll see how glorious she is, in your light, that she'll value the vehicle through which its coming from, and be rake'd into your vision.

Other way of course, she would see herself through your eyes as being less than you. And that would fire up her attraction to want to have you. Creating yourself as more valuable, sparking her desire to have you. Her desire to want you etc etc etc. You would be sort of stealing her frame, from the previously mentioned angle.

I'm sure you all follow the 2 angles I'm expressing here. Your thoughts and opinions would be much appreciated.

SteadyMackin'
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Give love freely with your eyes. Don't need with your eyes, give with your eyes. When you first meet you have to say with your eyes that you enjoy sliding your diick into girls but you LOVE girls and do it out of love for them.
 

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Hahahaaa... YES!

Well said my man!

I feel the same way... but, like then your giving them all the value. Then they know that they're now the sh!t in your eyes, and they already have you, thus no challenge or further interest.

But I still like your flavor, and how you roll with this one. I feel to live and exude the same magnamous love and pimpin being to the women of the world.

Cheers'

-DarkLight-
 

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I feel the same way... but, like then your giving them all the value.
No. That is a serious oversimplification of dating psycology as taught on this site. Thats like if a girl pours her heart out because she is head over heels in love with you and you tell her you love her also she will now not love you.

Then they know that they're now the sh!t in your eyes, and they already have you, thus no challenge or further interest.
If you know you have value and you give the right kind of love with your eyes she will be eager to give a little love back to you, the kind you want.
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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