"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What she sees in your eyes!?

DarkLight

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Sup All'

First post here, so this is the formal "hello"... lol
Good to see people getting their game tight, and and sharing the gems.


Anyways... was curious to see what people's opinions were on this one.

-Was wondering what you think a girl should see in your eyes? Say when you first meet her!? The 2 sides of the coin would be... to let her see, that damn she's beautiful sexy, shimmering in light, and you want to ransackle it. Or, that your the man, and she ain't Sh*t.

I think either way could seduce. In that, if she sees herself through your eyes, as this glimmering goddess that you want to move planets for to wax... then it will have an almost Rake effect on her. She'll be mesmerized by how beautifully you see her, and love you for it. She'll see how glorious she is, in your light, that she'll value the vehicle through which its coming from, and be rake'd into your vision.

Other way of course, she would see herself through your eyes as being less than you. And that would fire up her attraction to want to have you. Creating yourself as more valuable, sparking her desire to have you. Her desire to want you etc etc etc. You would be sort of stealing her frame, from the previously mentioned angle.

I'm sure you all follow the 2 angles I'm expressing here. Your thoughts and opinions would be much appreciated.

SteadyMackin'
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Give love freely with your eyes. Don't need with your eyes, give with your eyes. When you first meet you have to say with your eyes that you enjoy sliding your diick into girls but you LOVE girls and do it out of love for them.
 

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Hahahaaa... YES!

Well said my man!

I feel the same way... but, like then your giving them all the value. Then they know that they're now the sh!t in your eyes, and they already have you, thus no challenge or further interest.

But I still like your flavor, and how you roll with this one. I feel to live and exude the same magnamous love and pimpin being to the women of the world.

Cheers'

-DarkLight-
 

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I feel the same way... but, like then your giving them all the value.
No. That is a serious oversimplification of dating psycology as taught on this site. Thats like if a girl pours her heart out because she is head over heels in love with you and you tell her you love her also she will now not love you.

Then they know that they're now the sh!t in your eyes, and they already have you, thus no challenge or further interest.
If you know you have value and you give the right kind of love with your eyes she will be eager to give a little love back to you, the kind you want.
 

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you want to know what women see in my eyes?




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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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