"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What she sees in your eyes!?

DarkLight

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Sup All'

First post here, so this is the formal "hello"... lol
Good to see people getting their game tight, and and sharing the gems.


Anyways... was curious to see what people's opinions were on this one.

-Was wondering what you think a girl should see in your eyes? Say when you first meet her!? The 2 sides of the coin would be... to let her see, that damn she's beautiful sexy, shimmering in light, and you want to ransackle it. Or, that your the man, and she ain't Sh*t.

I think either way could seduce. In that, if she sees herself through your eyes, as this glimmering goddess that you want to move planets for to wax... then it will have an almost Rake effect on her. She'll be mesmerized by how beautifully you see her, and love you for it. She'll see how glorious she is, in your light, that she'll value the vehicle through which its coming from, and be rake'd into your vision.

Other way of course, she would see herself through your eyes as being less than you. And that would fire up her attraction to want to have you. Creating yourself as more valuable, sparking her desire to have you. Her desire to want you etc etc etc. You would be sort of stealing her frame, from the previously mentioned angle.

I'm sure you all follow the 2 angles I'm expressing here. Your thoughts and opinions would be much appreciated.

SteadyMackin'
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Give love freely with your eyes. Don't need with your eyes, give with your eyes. When you first meet you have to say with your eyes that you enjoy sliding your diick into girls but you LOVE girls and do it out of love for them.
 

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Hahahaaa... YES!

Well said my man!

I feel the same way... but, like then your giving them all the value. Then they know that they're now the sh!t in your eyes, and they already have you, thus no challenge or further interest.

But I still like your flavor, and how you roll with this one. I feel to live and exude the same magnamous love and pimpin being to the women of the world.

Cheers'

-DarkLight-
 

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I feel the same way... but, like then your giving them all the value.
No. That is a serious oversimplification of dating psycology as taught on this site. Thats like if a girl pours her heart out because she is head over heels in love with you and you tell her you love her also she will now not love you.

Then they know that they're now the sh!t in your eyes, and they already have you, thus no challenge or further interest.
If you know you have value and you give the right kind of love with your eyes she will be eager to give a little love back to you, the kind you want.
 

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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