"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i was supposed to watch movies with her today but i cancelled because i have something going. then i made plans to go friday and have dinner. and today i saw her and cancelled that too because somethign came up. she said we can just go next week and hang out. i said ok ...

but man i have the urge to want to be with her, even wanting to call her tonight after i do whatever i need to do. what shall i do? just wait til next week?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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anyway, here is an update. Since i cancelled the last 2 times we were supposed to hang out, i get out early thursday night around 8 pm. I told her in text "hey, im getting out early, if you are not busy, let's hang out, if not, good night"...then never got a response from her. I haven't texted or did any of that or did a follow up text. I'm thinking she is pissed off cause i bet no guy has ever done that to her.

I'm thinking of calling her again on monday or tuesday to tell her to hang out wed evening. She said she really wants to watch "inglorious basterds". ANd i will take her to the local drive ins. What you guys think? (its actually my bad that i cancelled on her twice and when i cancelled on her friday which i told her on thursday, she gave me that pissed look, but i will not apologize for cancelling next time i see her, i will just act cool and act like nothing ever happened or that her not responding to my text is bugging me)
 
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good! now that you have established whos boss, its time to throw the doggy a bone. treat her good wed eve, i dunno ... buy her a LARGE popcorn, with layered extra butter. LOL bang her good (take the time to service her well).
Just like at marineland, when the dolphin jumps through the hoop, they throw him a sardine or something. she will come back for more, again & again
 
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after talking to her today, she told me that her and her Ex started talking again,

...so im gonna NEXT her!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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so now you got someone else who has her "on the payroll". cool. just use her for a FB or booty call. thats all you wanted her for anyway right?
 
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well i text her today and said 'let's go eat at a nice restaurant on friday"...no text returned. I'm definitely nexting her!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I duno bro you came off kinda douchey in my opinion. Cancel on her twice then give her some ultimatum like "lets hang out if not goodnight" type of thing to save face in case she didnt reply or denied you or whatever, thats basically setting it up for her to not reply/say no and protect your ego from the "rejection" so to speak.. ..I duno how many times you boned this chick but.

It just seems like the game playing is too strong, your treating this "fuk buddy" like some kind of stupid PUA seduction when in reality if she is just a FB you would be getting down to biz without all the BS thats gettin spun around. Dont seem like FB situation to me brah.
 
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