"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i was supposed to watch movies with her today but i cancelled because i have something going. then i made plans to go friday and have dinner. and today i saw her and cancelled that too because somethign came up. she said we can just go next week and hang out. i said ok ...

but man i have the urge to want to be with her, even wanting to call her tonight after i do whatever i need to do. what shall i do? just wait til next week?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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anyway, here is an update. Since i cancelled the last 2 times we were supposed to hang out, i get out early thursday night around 8 pm. I told her in text "hey, im getting out early, if you are not busy, let's hang out, if not, good night"...then never got a response from her. I haven't texted or did any of that or did a follow up text. I'm thinking she is pissed off cause i bet no guy has ever done that to her.

I'm thinking of calling her again on monday or tuesday to tell her to hang out wed evening. She said she really wants to watch "inglorious basterds". ANd i will take her to the local drive ins. What you guys think? (its actually my bad that i cancelled on her twice and when i cancelled on her friday which i told her on thursday, she gave me that pissed look, but i will not apologize for cancelling next time i see her, i will just act cool and act like nothing ever happened or that her not responding to my text is bugging me)
 
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good! now that you have established whos boss, its time to throw the doggy a bone. treat her good wed eve, i dunno ... buy her a LARGE popcorn, with layered extra butter. LOL bang her good (take the time to service her well).
Just like at marineland, when the dolphin jumps through the hoop, they throw him a sardine or something. she will come back for more, again & again
 
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after talking to her today, she told me that her and her Ex started talking again,

...so im gonna NEXT her!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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so now you got someone else who has her "on the payroll". cool. just use her for a FB or booty call. thats all you wanted her for anyway right?
 
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well i text her today and said 'let's go eat at a nice restaurant on friday"...no text returned. I'm definitely nexting her!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I duno bro you came off kinda douchey in my opinion. Cancel on her twice then give her some ultimatum like "lets hang out if not goodnight" type of thing to save face in case she didnt reply or denied you or whatever, thats basically setting it up for her to not reply/say no and protect your ego from the "rejection" so to speak.. ..I duno how many times you boned this chick but.

It just seems like the game playing is too strong, your treating this "fuk buddy" like some kind of stupid PUA seduction when in reality if she is just a FB you would be getting down to biz without all the BS thats gettin spun around. Dont seem like FB situation to me brah.
 
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