"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what shall i do with my FB

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i was supposed to watch movies with her today but i cancelled because i have something going. then i made plans to go friday and have dinner. and today i saw her and cancelled that too because somethign came up. she said we can just go next week and hang out. i said ok ...

but man i have the urge to want to be with her, even wanting to call her tonight after i do whatever i need to do. what shall i do? just wait til next week?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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anyway, here is an update. Since i cancelled the last 2 times we were supposed to hang out, i get out early thursday night around 8 pm. I told her in text "hey, im getting out early, if you are not busy, let's hang out, if not, good night"...then never got a response from her. I haven't texted or did any of that or did a follow up text. I'm thinking she is pissed off cause i bet no guy has ever done that to her.

I'm thinking of calling her again on monday or tuesday to tell her to hang out wed evening. She said she really wants to watch "inglorious basterds". ANd i will take her to the local drive ins. What you guys think? (its actually my bad that i cancelled on her twice and when i cancelled on her friday which i told her on thursday, she gave me that pissed look, but i will not apologize for cancelling next time i see her, i will just act cool and act like nothing ever happened or that her not responding to my text is bugging me)
 
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good! now that you have established whos boss, its time to throw the doggy a bone. treat her good wed eve, i dunno ... buy her a LARGE popcorn, with layered extra butter. LOL bang her good (take the time to service her well).
Just like at marineland, when the dolphin jumps through the hoop, they throw him a sardine or something. she will come back for more, again & again
 
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after talking to her today, she told me that her and her Ex started talking again,

...so im gonna NEXT her!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so now you got someone else who has her "on the payroll". cool. just use her for a FB or booty call. thats all you wanted her for anyway right?
 
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well i text her today and said 'let's go eat at a nice restaurant on friday"...no text returned. I'm definitely nexting her!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I duno bro you came off kinda douchey in my opinion. Cancel on her twice then give her some ultimatum like "lets hang out if not goodnight" type of thing to save face in case she didnt reply or denied you or whatever, thats basically setting it up for her to not reply/say no and protect your ego from the "rejection" so to speak.. ..I duno how many times you boned this chick but.

It just seems like the game playing is too strong, your treating this "fuk buddy" like some kind of stupid PUA seduction when in reality if she is just a FB you would be getting down to biz without all the BS thats gettin spun around. Dont seem like FB situation to me brah.
 
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