"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What Seducer type are you?

thelittleprince

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Robert Green's law of power and law of attraction is a good read and both are absolutely relevant. Sometimes in very subtle ways but practicing the laws of power will make you far more attractive for sure.

Anyway what type of Seducer are you? There are nine types. 10 if you include the "anti Seducer" which could also be renamed the AFC.

Me personally I am 60% natural 40% Dandy.

So I've been asking myself how I can strengthen the natural attractiveness of my more instinctual self. (as it should come more naturally to first strengthen things more instinctual to me)

A Dandy can be described as someone who causes confusion and excitement and has a hint of being cruel.

I've attached a picture of my notebook with the beginnings of my research on this.

My question to you is which type of Seducer are you? And how would you strengthen the natural tendencies of this type of character?
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Robert Green’s books are entertaining. But I don’t find them to be too useful in reality. A lot of the evidence that he uses are based on works of fiction. And I can tell you that I wouldn’t watch a romantic movie and try to apply the principles from that movie to seduce a woman. James Bond on the other hand...
 

thelittleprince

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Robert Green’s books are entertaining. But I don’t find them to be too useful in reality. A lot of the evidence that he uses are based on works of fiction. And I can tell you that I wouldn’t watch a romantic movie and try to apply the principles from that movie to seduce a woman. James Bond on the other hand...
There's no direct concrete action plans that's for sure. Its something you have to get the feel for and work out something creatively and with trial and error. I'm working on the dreww code of the Dandy and upping my naturalistic abilities but trying to bring some of the darker character traits too. The hint of cruelty, the excitement and the confusion. Takes some real working on but if feels like casting yourself in to a movie and I quite like the idea that it's all just a game you play.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Robert Green's law of power and law of attraction is a good read and both are absolutely relevant. Sometimes in very subtle ways but practicing the laws of power will make you far more attractive for sure.

Anyway what type of Seducer are you? There are nine types. 10 if you include the "anti Seducer" which could also be renamed the AFC.

Me personally I am 60% natural 40% Dandy.

So I've been asking myself how I can strengthen the natural attractiveness of my more instinctual self. (as it should come more naturally to first strengthen things more instinctual to me)

A Dandy can be described as someone who causes confusion and excitement and has a hint of being cruel.

I've attached a picture of my notebook with the beginnings of my research on this.

My question to you is which type of Seducer are you? And how would you strengthen the natural tendencies of this type of character?
To chime in: I find archetypes to be completely lacking in explaining the psychology of sexuality and subjectivity as such. It's like astrology for nerds. the whole idea of the self should be to cut out your individuality from the bundle of genetics that you are given at birth, its overcoming the way one is, not pursuing their "truer self"
 
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