"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What Seducer type are you?

thelittleprince

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Robert Green's law of power and law of attraction is a good read and both are absolutely relevant. Sometimes in very subtle ways but practicing the laws of power will make you far more attractive for sure.

Anyway what type of Seducer are you? There are nine types. 10 if you include the "anti Seducer" which could also be renamed the AFC.

Me personally I am 60% natural 40% Dandy.

So I've been asking myself how I can strengthen the natural attractiveness of my more instinctual self. (as it should come more naturally to first strengthen things more instinctual to me)

A Dandy can be described as someone who causes confusion and excitement and has a hint of being cruel.

I've attached a picture of my notebook with the beginnings of my research on this.

My question to you is which type of Seducer are you? And how would you strengthen the natural tendencies of this type of character?
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Robert Green’s books are entertaining. But I don’t find them to be too useful in reality. A lot of the evidence that he uses are based on works of fiction. And I can tell you that I wouldn’t watch a romantic movie and try to apply the principles from that movie to seduce a woman. James Bond on the other hand...
 

thelittleprince

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Robert Green’s books are entertaining. But I don’t find them to be too useful in reality. A lot of the evidence that he uses are based on works of fiction. And I can tell you that I wouldn’t watch a romantic movie and try to apply the principles from that movie to seduce a woman. James Bond on the other hand...
There's no direct concrete action plans that's for sure. Its something you have to get the feel for and work out something creatively and with trial and error. I'm working on the dreww code of the Dandy and upping my naturalistic abilities but trying to bring some of the darker character traits too. The hint of cruelty, the excitement and the confusion. Takes some real working on but if feels like casting yourself in to a movie and I quite like the idea that it's all just a game you play.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Robert Green's law of power and law of attraction is a good read and both are absolutely relevant. Sometimes in very subtle ways but practicing the laws of power will make you far more attractive for sure.

Anyway what type of Seducer are you? There are nine types. 10 if you include the "anti Seducer" which could also be renamed the AFC.

Me personally I am 60% natural 40% Dandy.

So I've been asking myself how I can strengthen the natural attractiveness of my more instinctual self. (as it should come more naturally to first strengthen things more instinctual to me)

A Dandy can be described as someone who causes confusion and excitement and has a hint of being cruel.

I've attached a picture of my notebook with the beginnings of my research on this.

My question to you is which type of Seducer are you? And how would you strengthen the natural tendencies of this type of character?
To chime in: I find archetypes to be completely lacking in explaining the psychology of sexuality and subjectivity as such. It's like astrology for nerds. the whole idea of the self should be to cut out your individuality from the bundle of genetics that you are given at birth, its overcoming the way one is, not pursuing their "truer self"
 
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