“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What Seducer type are you?

thelittleprince

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Robert Green's law of power and law of attraction is a good read and both are absolutely relevant. Sometimes in very subtle ways but practicing the laws of power will make you far more attractive for sure.

Anyway what type of Seducer are you? There are nine types. 10 if you include the "anti Seducer" which could also be renamed the AFC.

Me personally I am 60% natural 40% Dandy.

So I've been asking myself how I can strengthen the natural attractiveness of my more instinctual self. (as it should come more naturally to first strengthen things more instinctual to me)

A Dandy can be described as someone who causes confusion and excitement and has a hint of being cruel.

I've attached a picture of my notebook with the beginnings of my research on this.

My question to you is which type of Seducer are you? And how would you strengthen the natural tendencies of this type of character?
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Robert Green’s books are entertaining. But I don’t find them to be too useful in reality. A lot of the evidence that he uses are based on works of fiction. And I can tell you that I wouldn’t watch a romantic movie and try to apply the principles from that movie to seduce a woman. James Bond on the other hand...
 

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Robert Green’s books are entertaining. But I don’t find them to be too useful in reality. A lot of the evidence that he uses are based on works of fiction. And I can tell you that I wouldn’t watch a romantic movie and try to apply the principles from that movie to seduce a woman. James Bond on the other hand...
There's no direct concrete action plans that's for sure. Its something you have to get the feel for and work out something creatively and with trial and error. I'm working on the dreww code of the Dandy and upping my naturalistic abilities but trying to bring some of the darker character traits too. The hint of cruelty, the excitement and the confusion. Takes some real working on but if feels like casting yourself in to a movie and I quite like the idea that it's all just a game you play.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Robert Green's law of power and law of attraction is a good read and both are absolutely relevant. Sometimes in very subtle ways but practicing the laws of power will make you far more attractive for sure.

Anyway what type of Seducer are you? There are nine types. 10 if you include the "anti Seducer" which could also be renamed the AFC.

Me personally I am 60% natural 40% Dandy.

So I've been asking myself how I can strengthen the natural attractiveness of my more instinctual self. (as it should come more naturally to first strengthen things more instinctual to me)

A Dandy can be described as someone who causes confusion and excitement and has a hint of being cruel.

I've attached a picture of my notebook with the beginnings of my research on this.

My question to you is which type of Seducer are you? And how would you strengthen the natural tendencies of this type of character?
To chime in: I find archetypes to be completely lacking in explaining the psychology of sexuality and subjectivity as such. It's like astrology for nerds. the whole idea of the self should be to cut out your individuality from the bundle of genetics that you are given at birth, its overcoming the way one is, not pursuing their "truer self"
 
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