"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What really attracts us to women?

Flex Luther

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Something I find interesting
Flat mate is a girl from the same masters course as me. She currently has a bf, but has had **** loads of male attention since I've known her..
Here's the thing.. She is around a 4/5 max, both face and body. She is good fun sometimes, and has a front of confidence.. but immature and annoying.
Why is she successful? If guys are attracted mainly by looks then she should have very little to choose from. ?
Could be because she puts out easily, someone once remarked it to be like a motorcycle crash down there, but these guys aren't looking for a quick **** in the main, they want relationships!
Even had one massive AFC do a whole playing her music standing outside the window scene, which was hilarious!
What do we really prioritise?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Exactly. Was just wondering guys perspectives on what attracts them to a woman. Like is it possible that seeing a woman with another guy can raise your interest level like it does for women? In this case maybe the guys get attached through a lack of options but initially went for an easy ****?
As the comedian Jim Jeffries says:
'The difference between a slut and a stud is effort.
For a guy to be considered a stud, he must be charming, well groomed, funny, ambitious etc... For a girl to be a slut she just has to be there'
 

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Its something that other peers are competiting for and a weird thing we place on our ego that defines us as successful......other than that...legs and ass man....kefas andass...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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We are attracted to women who display interest in us, and submissively flirt. Men are attracted to woman that act feminine and who also appreciate our masculinity.

It's all in her body language. We all think that WE are the ones that pick up women, when in fact it's they that send out these little body language signals that we subconsciously pick up on which drives us to approach them.
 

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We must have drugs

Dopamine....(crack)













Oxytocin....(heroin)
 
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