"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What really attracts us to women?

Flex Luther

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Something I find interesting
Flat mate is a girl from the same masters course as me. She currently has a bf, but has had **** loads of male attention since I've known her..
Here's the thing.. She is around a 4/5 max, both face and body. She is good fun sometimes, and has a front of confidence.. but immature and annoying.
Why is she successful? If guys are attracted mainly by looks then she should have very little to choose from. ?
Could be because she puts out easily, someone once remarked it to be like a motorcycle crash down there, but these guys aren't looking for a quick **** in the main, they want relationships!
Even had one massive AFC do a whole playing her music standing outside the window scene, which was hilarious!
What do we really prioritise?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Flex Luther

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Exactly. Was just wondering guys perspectives on what attracts them to a woman. Like is it possible that seeing a woman with another guy can raise your interest level like it does for women? In this case maybe the guys get attached through a lack of options but initially went for an easy ****?
As the comedian Jim Jeffries says:
'The difference between a slut and a stud is effort.
For a guy to be considered a stud, he must be charming, well groomed, funny, ambitious etc... For a girl to be a slut she just has to be there'
 

zinc4

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Its something that other peers are competiting for and a weird thing we place on our ego that defines us as successful......other than that...legs and ass man....kefas andass...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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RangerMIke

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We are attracted to women who display interest in us, and submissively flirt. Men are attracted to woman that act feminine and who also appreciate our masculinity.

It's all in her body language. We all think that WE are the ones that pick up women, when in fact it's they that send out these little body language signals that we subconsciously pick up on which drives us to approach them.
 

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We must have drugs

Dopamine....(crack)













Oxytocin....(heroin)
 
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