Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What really attracts us to women?

Flex Luther

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Something I find interesting
Flat mate is a girl from the same masters course as me. She currently has a bf, but has had **** loads of male attention since I've known her..
Here's the thing.. She is around a 4/5 max, both face and body. She is good fun sometimes, and has a front of confidence.. but immature and annoying.
Why is she successful? If guys are attracted mainly by looks then she should have very little to choose from. ?
Could be because she puts out easily, someone once remarked it to be like a motorcycle crash down there, but these guys aren't looking for a quick **** in the main, they want relationships!
Even had one massive AFC do a whole playing her music standing outside the window scene, which was hilarious!
What do we really prioritise?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Flex Luther

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Exactly. Was just wondering guys perspectives on what attracts them to a woman. Like is it possible that seeing a woman with another guy can raise your interest level like it does for women? In this case maybe the guys get attached through a lack of options but initially went for an easy ****?
As the comedian Jim Jeffries says:
'The difference between a slut and a stud is effort.
For a guy to be considered a stud, he must be charming, well groomed, funny, ambitious etc... For a girl to be a slut she just has to be there'
 

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Its something that other peers are competiting for and a weird thing we place on our ego that defines us as successful......other than that...legs and ass man....kefas andass...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RangerMIke

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We are attracted to women who display interest in us, and submissively flirt. Men are attracted to woman that act feminine and who also appreciate our masculinity.

It's all in her body language. We all think that WE are the ones that pick up women, when in fact it's they that send out these little body language signals that we subconsciously pick up on which drives us to approach them.
 

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We must have drugs

Dopamine....(crack)













Oxytocin....(heroin)
 
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