"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What really attracts us to women?

Flex Luther

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Something I find interesting
Flat mate is a girl from the same masters course as me. She currently has a bf, but has had **** loads of male attention since I've known her..
Here's the thing.. She is around a 4/5 max, both face and body. She is good fun sometimes, and has a front of confidence.. but immature and annoying.
Why is she successful? If guys are attracted mainly by looks then she should have very little to choose from. ?
Could be because she puts out easily, someone once remarked it to be like a motorcycle crash down there, but these guys aren't looking for a quick **** in the main, they want relationships!
Even had one massive AFC do a whole playing her music standing outside the window scene, which was hilarious!
What do we really prioritise?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Flex Luther

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Exactly. Was just wondering guys perspectives on what attracts them to a woman. Like is it possible that seeing a woman with another guy can raise your interest level like it does for women? In this case maybe the guys get attached through a lack of options but initially went for an easy ****?
As the comedian Jim Jeffries says:
'The difference between a slut and a stud is effort.
For a guy to be considered a stud, he must be charming, well groomed, funny, ambitious etc... For a girl to be a slut she just has to be there'
 

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Its something that other peers are competiting for and a weird thing we place on our ego that defines us as successful......other than that...legs and ass man....kefas andass...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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RangerMIke

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We are attracted to women who display interest in us, and submissively flirt. Men are attracted to woman that act feminine and who also appreciate our masculinity.

It's all in her body language. We all think that WE are the ones that pick up women, when in fact it's they that send out these little body language signals that we subconsciously pick up on which drives us to approach them.
 

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We must have drugs

Dopamine....(crack)













Oxytocin....(heroin)
 
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