davidsonj73
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Also, how much can one charge for how many hours of lessons?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What qualifications does one need to offer PUA bootcamps?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BackInTheGame78
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Perhaps a simple Google search would return what you are asking?
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FlexpertHamilton
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Qualifications? Psychopathy, for being willing to manipulate people into thinking they need to pay you $2500 in order to not be a loser.
characternote
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no qualifications lol. The golden age might have gone now since nobody really believes in 'PUA' anymore, but for a while it was a good option for basically anyone to make some decent money charging idiots £500 per day to tell them too approach girls and compliment them!
People like James Tusk quit a very high paid London stock broker job to be a PUA coach. Living the dream!
People like James Tusk quit a very high paid London stock broker job to be a PUA coach. Living the dream!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SW15
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The whole PUA thing seems to be fading. Few men now are interested in doing a lot of approaching in the real world, as compared to the PUAs of the late 1990s - mid 2010s era. Interest in PUA likely peaked somewhere in the 2000s.
A lot of people like the idea of sitting at home and swiping, even though swipe apps tend to produce poor outcomes for most men. A lot of men find it convenient to sit at home instead of getting dressed up and going out into the real world. This was something many men were feeling in the 2010s even before the pandemic affected real world interactions for about 2 years in the early 2020s.
Social media DMing is also a difficult path.
I determined my best path involved real world approaching as compared to app swiping or sending DMs on Instagram.
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characternote
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the main change is that the idea of 'game' (past basic social skills) just isn't something anyone really believes in any more. And tbh, rightly so!
(which for this purpose we'll define game as the ability, based on knowledge and skill, to be able to verbally talk your way into a girls pants and create huge sexual attraction, even if you are not her type at all. Applied charisma! - So a Danny Devito lookalike with no money or fame going from bar to bar, and banging a huge percentage of the hot 18 year olds he opens, despite their initial disgust. Pure fantasy! hahaa)
That's essentially what PUA coaches tried to sell at a time - the irony being that if you watch their infield footage, THEY TOO can't do it! lol. They get rejected a tonne. And they only tend to bang the girls who were clearly attracted to them before they open their mouths!
The concept is more realistic nowadays. Even on this site, if people are asking about advice about getting girls, the advice is essentialyl always 'hit the gym. Get better looking. Make more money'. Stuff that oldschool PUA's would say is irrelevant lol
FlexpertHamilton
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Imo, it peaked in late 00s - early 10s. RSDs golden years were around this time. I still remember Julien Blancs infield footage around this time, 10-14, he was a literal pickup God, i can find his old compilation footage if anyone wants. It was truly incredible, and a total paradigm shift. Unfortunately, the SJW/feminists ramped up by the mid 10s and he was cancelled, which led to the downfall of RSD and PUA in general.