Piers Nivens
Don Juan
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I usually see a tie between doctors and police officers.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
bradd80 said:howard, I'd have to disagree with you on this on as I'm a lawyer and I find plenty of time to bang hot bishes. Mind you, I'm also tall, fit, and reasonably good looking so maybe this plays a part. But the hours issue definitely isn't a problem, where there's a will there's a way. If nothing else, there's always Friday and Saturday nights plus I'm always getting hooked up through friends and meeting women through social and networking events. Being a doctor or lawyer is definitely a plus, but I know lots of doctors and lawyers who are not that good looking or not very social and they're perpetually single so I think things like looks, fitness, dressing well, and having game count for a lot no matter what profession you're in.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Espi said:We have a guy here on SS who claims to be a police officer so maybe he'll weigh in on the discussion.
I think being a cop would draw a "love it or hate it" kind of deal from women.
I've personally had discussions with a few women who were married to policemen and they related the profession negatively--mainly due to the stress.
I'm told all the time that I look like a cop/military, and that's why several women said that they were attracted to me. That's the positive of being a policeman, I guess--the look, the authoritative personality, the ability to handle oneself in stressful situations, etc. It definitely takes a strong personality to be a police officer. I can see how woman would be attracted to that.