"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
what other forums do you visit?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
I'm gonna take a guess and say you check out bullshido too. :wave:Just wondering what other forums everyone else visits.
Dinamo related:
http://www.dinamomania.net/forums/
http://www.dinamo-online.net/forum/
http://www.phpbbplanet.com/forum/index.php?mforum=zd&sid=547b1197af7c52173a6f65f88fe6e6a8
Web design related:
http://www.sitepoint.com/forums/
http://w3schools.invisionzone.com/
http://www.ozzu.com/
Thats about it. These are the ones I visit regulary, there are more but I visit them only when I remember.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Mitch_Mustain
Don Juan
Taviii said:Interesting, you can get to now people better by the forums they visit:
Dinamo related:
http://www.dinamomania.net/forums/
http://www.dinamo-online.net/forum/
http://www.phpbbplanet.com/forum/index.php?mforum=zd&sid=547b1197af7c52173a6f65f88fe6e6a8
Web design related:
http://www.sitepoint.com/forums/
http://w3schools.invisionzone.com/
http://www.ozzu.com/
Thats about it. These are the ones I visit regulary, there are more but I visit them only when I remember.
damn you really need a life
Dinamo is my life, and web design is a passion.Mitch_Mustain said:damn you really need a life
Anyways I got about 100 posts in total on these 6 forums, I dont really have time for posting, I just search for the info I need, especialy on the webdesign ones.
Cheers!
seanchai
Master Don Juan
www.superfuture.com/city/supertalk/index.php
www.mynudies.com
All fashion related, particularly denim. And a private PU board.
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do you buy sex???AVERAGE & FRUSTRATED said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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