"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
what other forums do you visit?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
I'm gonna take a guess and say you check out bullshido too. :wave:Just wondering what other forums everyone else visits.
Dinamo related:
http://www.dinamomania.net/forums/
http://www.dinamo-online.net/forum/
http://www.phpbbplanet.com/forum/index.php?mforum=zd&sid=547b1197af7c52173a6f65f88fe6e6a8
Web design related:
http://www.sitepoint.com/forums/
http://w3schools.invisionzone.com/
http://www.ozzu.com/
Thats about it. These are the ones I visit regulary, there are more but I visit them only when I remember.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mitch_Mustain
Don Juan
Taviii said:Interesting, you can get to now people better by the forums they visit:
Dinamo related:
http://www.dinamomania.net/forums/
http://www.dinamo-online.net/forum/
http://www.phpbbplanet.com/forum/index.php?mforum=zd&sid=547b1197af7c52173a6f65f88fe6e6a8
Web design related:
http://www.sitepoint.com/forums/
http://w3schools.invisionzone.com/
http://www.ozzu.com/
Thats about it. These are the ones I visit regulary, there are more but I visit them only when I remember.
damn you really need a life
Dinamo is my life, and web design is a passion.Mitch_Mustain said:damn you really need a life
Anyways I got about 100 posts in total on these 6 forums, I dont really have time for posting, I just search for the info I need, especialy on the webdesign ones.
Cheers!
seanchai
Master Don Juan
www.superfuture.com/city/supertalk/index.php
www.mynudies.com
All fashion related, particularly denim. And a private PU board.
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do you buy sex???AVERAGE & FRUSTRATED said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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