"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What on Earth happened to the 'Success Stories' forum?

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I thought that was probably the best section out of all the forums, because it gave a concrete example of *what to do* in order to succeed - it was effective because it gave situation-specific courses of actions that were taken to achieve success with a PU.



What the fvck happened to it? :confused: I vote with a resounding 'yay' on bringing it back with a vengence! :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well?? Has no one else noticed this? :confused: I can think of a million success stories I can type to help people.
 
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Success Stories never really garnered alot of activity when it was here. And I think I know why.

No one wanted to post their failures.

For the majority of posters on this site, success in the field is NOT the norm. It is the exception. So unless a significant number of posters communicate that they are willing to post field reports on what they did wrong AND the corrective actions they took to alleviate past errors with women and themselves, I don't see how bringing back "Success Stories" would add any quality to the forum.
 
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Originally posted by Survivor
Success Stories never really garnered alot of activity when it was here. And I think I know why.

No one wanted to post their failures.

For the majority of posters on this site, success in the field is NOT the norm. It is the exception. So unless a significant number of posters communicate that they are willing to post field reports on what they did wrong AND the corrective actions they took to alleviate past errors with women and themselves, I don't see how bringing back "Success Stories" would add any quality to the forum.
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I know that for many guys here, success is not the normal outcome. I know that - but that's all the more reason to have a section dedicated to success stories!



So what if it didn't take off immediately? Look at the 'Mature DJs' section - in comparison to 'General Discussion' and 'Anything Else' it's a ghost town. But there are still a few members that utilize that space well and appreciate that something like that exists. I honestly believe that a success story section will help those intermediate DJs that have gotten over the fear of talking to and asking womens' numbers - they must now focus on working their game - i.e. going for the kiss or fvck-close on a consistent basis.



I therefore think that the 'success stories' forum won't help an rAFC or a hardcore AFC achieve anything (because he still has no idea what it's like to even talk/ask out a girl... they need to work on that first) - but it will definately help intermediate DJs take the next few critical steps to achieving consistent success. ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How about a 'Winning and Losing Stories' section?
I really like reading peoples personal experiences.
I find it helps us understand the message by relating to the story. Many times i have found solace in a story that is very closely linked to whats going on in my life.
Bring back the personal experiences, i think they would be great!
 
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Actually, the Success Stories Forum is still around, just not active and shown (like the Unusual Techniques in Seduction Forum)...Just check my signature.
 
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crazykid I was hoping you wouldn't tell them that...:mad: j/k ;)

In any case, I can't see how that forum helps anyone, but if you all feel it helps you in real life, then by all means click the link on crazykid's sig.
 
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Originally posted by Survivor
crazykid I was hoping you wouldn't tell them that...:mad: j/k ;)

In any case, I can't see how that forum helps anyone, but if you all feel it helps you in real life, then by all means click the link on crazykid's sig.
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Oh crap man, I knew I shouldn't have told them a top secret mod thing...Kind of like the all expenses paid trip to Vegas we are having, right?

Oh crap, not again!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Success stories or any kind of stories can come under a Field Report section
 
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So.... if the "Success Stories" section is not active, does that mean it cannot be updated/new input added?
 
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Originally posted by jakethasnake
So.... if the "Success Stories" section is not active, does that mean it cannot be updated/new input added?
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Correct.
 
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