"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What on Earth happened to the 'Success Stories' forum?

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I thought that was probably the best section out of all the forums, because it gave a concrete example of *what to do* in order to succeed - it was effective because it gave situation-specific courses of actions that were taken to achieve success with a PU.



What the fvck happened to it? :confused: I vote with a resounding 'yay' on bringing it back with a vengence! :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well?? Has no one else noticed this? :confused: I can think of a million success stories I can type to help people.
 
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Success Stories never really garnered alot of activity when it was here. And I think I know why.

No one wanted to post their failures.

For the majority of posters on this site, success in the field is NOT the norm. It is the exception. So unless a significant number of posters communicate that they are willing to post field reports on what they did wrong AND the corrective actions they took to alleviate past errors with women and themselves, I don't see how bringing back "Success Stories" would add any quality to the forum.
 
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Originally posted by Survivor
Success Stories never really garnered alot of activity when it was here. And I think I know why.

No one wanted to post their failures.

For the majority of posters on this site, success in the field is NOT the norm. It is the exception. So unless a significant number of posters communicate that they are willing to post field reports on what they did wrong AND the corrective actions they took to alleviate past errors with women and themselves, I don't see how bringing back "Success Stories" would add any quality to the forum.
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I know that for many guys here, success is not the normal outcome. I know that - but that's all the more reason to have a section dedicated to success stories!



So what if it didn't take off immediately? Look at the 'Mature DJs' section - in comparison to 'General Discussion' and 'Anything Else' it's a ghost town. But there are still a few members that utilize that space well and appreciate that something like that exists. I honestly believe that a success story section will help those intermediate DJs that have gotten over the fear of talking to and asking womens' numbers - they must now focus on working their game - i.e. going for the kiss or fvck-close on a consistent basis.



I therefore think that the 'success stories' forum won't help an rAFC or a hardcore AFC achieve anything (because he still has no idea what it's like to even talk/ask out a girl... they need to work on that first) - but it will definately help intermediate DJs take the next few critical steps to achieving consistent success. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How about a 'Winning and Losing Stories' section?
I really like reading peoples personal experiences.
I find it helps us understand the message by relating to the story. Many times i have found solace in a story that is very closely linked to whats going on in my life.
Bring back the personal experiences, i think they would be great!
 
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Actually, the Success Stories Forum is still around, just not active and shown (like the Unusual Techniques in Seduction Forum)...Just check my signature.
 
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crazykid I was hoping you wouldn't tell them that...:mad: j/k ;)

In any case, I can't see how that forum helps anyone, but if you all feel it helps you in real life, then by all means click the link on crazykid's sig.
 
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Originally posted by Survivor
crazykid I was hoping you wouldn't tell them that...:mad: j/k ;)

In any case, I can't see how that forum helps anyone, but if you all feel it helps you in real life, then by all means click the link on crazykid's sig.
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Oh crap man, I knew I shouldn't have told them a top secret mod thing...Kind of like the all expenses paid trip to Vegas we are having, right?

Oh crap, not again!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Success stories or any kind of stories can come under a Field Report section
 
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So.... if the "Success Stories" section is not active, does that mean it cannot be updated/new input added?
 
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Originally posted by jakethasnake
So.... if the "Success Stories" section is not active, does that mean it cannot be updated/new input added?
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Correct.
 
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