"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What on Earth happened to the 'Success Stories' forum?

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I thought that was probably the best section out of all the forums, because it gave a concrete example of *what to do* in order to succeed - it was effective because it gave situation-specific courses of actions that were taken to achieve success with a PU.



What the fvck happened to it? :confused: I vote with a resounding 'yay' on bringing it back with a vengence! :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well?? Has no one else noticed this? :confused: I can think of a million success stories I can type to help people.
 
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Success Stories never really garnered alot of activity when it was here. And I think I know why.

No one wanted to post their failures.

For the majority of posters on this site, success in the field is NOT the norm. It is the exception. So unless a significant number of posters communicate that they are willing to post field reports on what they did wrong AND the corrective actions they took to alleviate past errors with women and themselves, I don't see how bringing back "Success Stories" would add any quality to the forum.
 
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Originally posted by Survivor
Success Stories never really garnered alot of activity when it was here. And I think I know why.

No one wanted to post their failures.

For the majority of posters on this site, success in the field is NOT the norm. It is the exception. So unless a significant number of posters communicate that they are willing to post field reports on what they did wrong AND the corrective actions they took to alleviate past errors with women and themselves, I don't see how bringing back "Success Stories" would add any quality to the forum.
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I know that for many guys here, success is not the normal outcome. I know that - but that's all the more reason to have a section dedicated to success stories!



So what if it didn't take off immediately? Look at the 'Mature DJs' section - in comparison to 'General Discussion' and 'Anything Else' it's a ghost town. But there are still a few members that utilize that space well and appreciate that something like that exists. I honestly believe that a success story section will help those intermediate DJs that have gotten over the fear of talking to and asking womens' numbers - they must now focus on working their game - i.e. going for the kiss or fvck-close on a consistent basis.



I therefore think that the 'success stories' forum won't help an rAFC or a hardcore AFC achieve anything (because he still has no idea what it's like to even talk/ask out a girl... they need to work on that first) - but it will definately help intermediate DJs take the next few critical steps to achieving consistent success. ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How about a 'Winning and Losing Stories' section?
I really like reading peoples personal experiences.
I find it helps us understand the message by relating to the story. Many times i have found solace in a story that is very closely linked to whats going on in my life.
Bring back the personal experiences, i think they would be great!
 
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Actually, the Success Stories Forum is still around, just not active and shown (like the Unusual Techniques in Seduction Forum)...Just check my signature.
 
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crazykid I was hoping you wouldn't tell them that...:mad: j/k ;)

In any case, I can't see how that forum helps anyone, but if you all feel it helps you in real life, then by all means click the link on crazykid's sig.
 
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Originally posted by Survivor
crazykid I was hoping you wouldn't tell them that...:mad: j/k ;)

In any case, I can't see how that forum helps anyone, but if you all feel it helps you in real life, then by all means click the link on crazykid's sig.
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Oh crap man, I knew I shouldn't have told them a top secret mod thing...Kind of like the all expenses paid trip to Vegas we are having, right?

Oh crap, not again!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Success stories or any kind of stories can come under a Field Report section
 
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So.... if the "Success Stories" section is not active, does that mean it cannot be updated/new input added?
 
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Originally posted by jakethasnake
So.... if the "Success Stories" section is not active, does that mean it cannot be updated/new input added?
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Correct.
 
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