"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What % of your pickup attempts are in front of an audience?

fruitopiax

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I guess this would be cold approaches here. What % are around people that can clearly hear what you're talking about.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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People keep track of such statistics?
 

Jitterbug

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I've never approached a girl standing by herself in the middle of nowhere. There are always plenty of people around. Cold-approaching a girl with nobody around is creepy and will scare her off.

Nobody gives a toss about you trying to PU a girl. If you're ashamed of what you do, then it'd seem like everybody's watching. The truth is that most people are too caught up in their own world to notice.
 

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I think about 100%

I honestly can't ever remember trying to without someone else within hearing range.
 

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By hearing range, he probably means close enough to hear exactly what both of you are saying, i.e., seated at a table with other strangers, standing in line with strangers behind both of you (like at the post office), etc.

Me, zero %. My approaches are in view of other people (public), but not close enough to others so that they can follow our conversation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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