"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What % of your pickup attempts are in front of an audience?

fruitopiax

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I guess this would be cold approaches here. What % are around people that can clearly hear what you're talking about.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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People keep track of such statistics?
 

Jitterbug

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I've never approached a girl standing by herself in the middle of nowhere. There are always plenty of people around. Cold-approaching a girl with nobody around is creepy and will scare her off.

Nobody gives a toss about you trying to PU a girl. If you're ashamed of what you do, then it'd seem like everybody's watching. The truth is that most people are too caught up in their own world to notice.
 

TheEdgeOf

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I think about 100%

I honestly can't ever remember trying to without someone else within hearing range.
 

FoolsCause

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By hearing range, he probably means close enough to hear exactly what both of you are saying, i.e., seated at a table with other strangers, standing in line with strangers behind both of you (like at the post office), etc.

Me, zero %. My approaches are in view of other people (public), but not close enough to others so that they can follow our conversation.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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