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like when you lose 50lbsPackers2010 said:in the mouth is a special place and only happens when you do something when she is attracted to you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
like when you lose 50lbsPackers2010 said:in the mouth is a special place and only happens when you do something when she is attracted to you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How can you expect oral when you dont give it? Id expect anyone who enjoys oral wouldnt be keen on giving to someone who wouldnt reciprocate.mr. kennedy said:The reason I ask is because the last 2 girls I met (they were more the girls next door type) didn't give head. Not sure if it's simply because they were more conservative or it's something I'm not doing.
I never give oral so maybe in this feminist era they are expecting it from me first.
I'd actually take a hj over a bj any day. Probably because most chicks don't know what the hell they're doing. If I were you I'd still get her to give bj's every once in awhile just so she won't think you're spoiling her lol. To address the OP if your girl isn't willing to do just about anything for you sexually then you're doing something wrong.yyc12 said:I guess I am officially the only guy that doesn't care for bj's but still loves eating pvssy. My first ex really like doing it but when I gave her a chance it was terrible...never let anyone do it since.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
JoeMarron said:I'd actually take a hj over a bj any day. Probably because most chicks don't know what the hell they're doing. If I were you I'd still get her to give bj's every once in awhile just so she won't think you're spoiling her lol. To address the OP if your girl isn't willing to do just about anything for you sexually then you're doing something wrong.
^This. I think it's easier to get intercourse than get head.Packers2010 said:they give it. but they have to be SUPER attracted to do it.
You're usually standing up? I pretty much never do that when receiving oral sex. For the girl it is much easier to give when you are lying down, and usually you are in a horisontal position already.Mike32ct said:Of course age is a factor. Maybe at 18 head means less to her than intecourse. For more mature ladies, it's probably the opposite. Getting down on her knees to pleasure your junk is her sort of worshipping you in sense, so it is a big deal.
No, I didn't see her again, and I cancelled a travel plan we had half decided to do together. Actually the deal breaker was the long piece of hair on her breast, not the weird feminist "Yes, you may".plate's_empty said:LOL!!
That's hilarious. Hopefully you didn't go back for seconds on that one. Feminists, at least she wasn't BPD. Only thing I can imagine worse than a feminist. I can handle feminists though, but there aren't not too many hot ones.
I sucked on a chicks boobs in high school who had a few long strands of hair coming out of her nipples, she was pretty hot too. The whole time I was thinking: why have you not plucked these?? haha. She was a famous "virgin" of the high school. I gave it a shot but to no avail. BUT, in keeping on the topic of this thread...yes, she did give me a blow job![]()
I was sitting last time. But certainly it would be more comfortable for her if I was lying down. Agreed.Wolfgang D said:You're usually standing up? I pretty much never do that when receiving oral sex. For the girl it is much easier to give when you are lying down, and usually you are in a horisontal position already.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Anything from a long term girlfriend to a fk buddy. Of course every girl is gonna have her limits but as long as she's not absolutely digusted by the idea if she's attracted to you she's gonna wanna please you.plate's_empty said:What do you mean by "your girl"?
Are you saying your girl friend should be willing to lick your a$$hole? What if she doesn't want to?
So you expect a ONS to blow you?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This. If she has extremely high interest she will lick your arsehole. I have a plate who is in love with me and tells me she cant wait to have my cawk in her mouth later. Swallows too. Her words matches her actions.with the right guy, amost 100% of them
I'll give you a pretty good idea of the percentage of women that blow, simply look up the percentage of women married. The percent not married give head, the percent married don't, end of story.Whenever you're with a woman, do you assume she gives oral sex? Would you dump a woman that does not?
Do you give oral first or wait for her to give you a blow?
Married don't fvck or cook eitherI'll give you a pretty good idea of the percentage of women that blow, simply look up the percentage of women married. The percent not married give head, the percent married don't, end of story.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.