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like when you lose 50lbsPackers2010 said:in the mouth is a special place and only happens when you do something when she is attracted to you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
like when you lose 50lbsPackers2010 said:in the mouth is a special place and only happens when you do something when she is attracted to you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How can you expect oral when you dont give it? Id expect anyone who enjoys oral wouldnt be keen on giving to someone who wouldnt reciprocate.mr. kennedy said:The reason I ask is because the last 2 girls I met (they were more the girls next door type) didn't give head. Not sure if it's simply because they were more conservative or it's something I'm not doing.
I never give oral so maybe in this feminist era they are expecting it from me first.
I'd actually take a hj over a bj any day. Probably because most chicks don't know what the hell they're doing. If I were you I'd still get her to give bj's every once in awhile just so she won't think you're spoiling her lol. To address the OP if your girl isn't willing to do just about anything for you sexually then you're doing something wrong.yyc12 said:I guess I am officially the only guy that doesn't care for bj's but still loves eating pvssy. My first ex really like doing it but when I gave her a chance it was terrible...never let anyone do it since.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
JoeMarron said:I'd actually take a hj over a bj any day. Probably because most chicks don't know what the hell they're doing. If I were you I'd still get her to give bj's every once in awhile just so she won't think you're spoiling her lol. To address the OP if your girl isn't willing to do just about anything for you sexually then you're doing something wrong.
^This. I think it's easier to get intercourse than get head.Packers2010 said:they give it. but they have to be SUPER attracted to do it.
You're usually standing up? I pretty much never do that when receiving oral sex. For the girl it is much easier to give when you are lying down, and usually you are in a horisontal position already.Mike32ct said:Of course age is a factor. Maybe at 18 head means less to her than intecourse. For more mature ladies, it's probably the opposite. Getting down on her knees to pleasure your junk is her sort of worshipping you in sense, so it is a big deal.
No, I didn't see her again, and I cancelled a travel plan we had half decided to do together. Actually the deal breaker was the long piece of hair on her breast, not the weird feminist "Yes, you may".plate's_empty said:LOL!!
That's hilarious. Hopefully you didn't go back for seconds on that one. Feminists, at least she wasn't BPD. Only thing I can imagine worse than a feminist. I can handle feminists though, but there aren't not too many hot ones.
I sucked on a chicks boobs in high school who had a few long strands of hair coming out of her nipples, she was pretty hot too. The whole time I was thinking: why have you not plucked these?? haha. She was a famous "virgin" of the high school. I gave it a shot but to no avail. BUT, in keeping on the topic of this thread...yes, she did give me a blow job![]()
I was sitting last time. But certainly it would be more comfortable for her if I was lying down. Agreed.Wolfgang D said:You're usually standing up? I pretty much never do that when receiving oral sex. For the girl it is much easier to give when you are lying down, and usually you are in a horisontal position already.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Anything from a long term girlfriend to a fk buddy. Of course every girl is gonna have her limits but as long as she's not absolutely digusted by the idea if she's attracted to you she's gonna wanna please you.plate's_empty said:What do you mean by "your girl"?
Are you saying your girl friend should be willing to lick your a$$hole? What if she doesn't want to?
So you expect a ONS to blow you?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
This. If she has extremely high interest she will lick your arsehole. I have a plate who is in love with me and tells me she cant wait to have my cawk in her mouth later. Swallows too. Her words matches her actions.with the right guy, amost 100% of them
I'll give you a pretty good idea of the percentage of women that blow, simply look up the percentage of women married. The percent not married give head, the percent married don't, end of story.Whenever you're with a woman, do you assume she gives oral sex? Would you dump a woman that does not?
Do you give oral first or wait for her to give you a blow?
Married don't fvck or cook eitherI'll give you a pretty good idea of the percentage of women that blow, simply look up the percentage of women married. The percent not married give head, the percent married don't, end of story.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.