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like when you lose 50lbsPackers2010 said:in the mouth is a special place and only happens when you do something when she is attracted to you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
like when you lose 50lbsPackers2010 said:in the mouth is a special place and only happens when you do something when she is attracted to you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How can you expect oral when you dont give it? Id expect anyone who enjoys oral wouldnt be keen on giving to someone who wouldnt reciprocate.mr. kennedy said:The reason I ask is because the last 2 girls I met (they were more the girls next door type) didn't give head. Not sure if it's simply because they were more conservative or it's something I'm not doing.
I never give oral so maybe in this feminist era they are expecting it from me first.
I'd actually take a hj over a bj any day. Probably because most chicks don't know what the hell they're doing. If I were you I'd still get her to give bj's every once in awhile just so she won't think you're spoiling her lol. To address the OP if your girl isn't willing to do just about anything for you sexually then you're doing something wrong.yyc12 said:I guess I am officially the only guy that doesn't care for bj's but still loves eating pvssy. My first ex really like doing it but when I gave her a chance it was terrible...never let anyone do it since.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
JoeMarron said:I'd actually take a hj over a bj any day. Probably because most chicks don't know what the hell they're doing. If I were you I'd still get her to give bj's every once in awhile just so she won't think you're spoiling her lol. To address the OP if your girl isn't willing to do just about anything for you sexually then you're doing something wrong.
^This. I think it's easier to get intercourse than get head.Packers2010 said:they give it. but they have to be SUPER attracted to do it.
You're usually standing up? I pretty much never do that when receiving oral sex. For the girl it is much easier to give when you are lying down, and usually you are in a horisontal position already.Mike32ct said:Of course age is a factor. Maybe at 18 head means less to her than intecourse. For more mature ladies, it's probably the opposite. Getting down on her knees to pleasure your junk is her sort of worshipping you in sense, so it is a big deal.
No, I didn't see her again, and I cancelled a travel plan we had half decided to do together. Actually the deal breaker was the long piece of hair on her breast, not the weird feminist "Yes, you may".plate's_empty said:LOL!!
That's hilarious. Hopefully you didn't go back for seconds on that one. Feminists, at least she wasn't BPD. Only thing I can imagine worse than a feminist. I can handle feminists though, but there aren't not too many hot ones.
I sucked on a chicks boobs in high school who had a few long strands of hair coming out of her nipples, she was pretty hot too. The whole time I was thinking: why have you not plucked these?? haha. She was a famous "virgin" of the high school. I gave it a shot but to no avail. BUT, in keeping on the topic of this thread...yes, she did give me a blow job![]()
I was sitting last time. But certainly it would be more comfortable for her if I was lying down. Agreed.Wolfgang D said:You're usually standing up? I pretty much never do that when receiving oral sex. For the girl it is much easier to give when you are lying down, and usually you are in a horisontal position already.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Anything from a long term girlfriend to a fk buddy. Of course every girl is gonna have her limits but as long as she's not absolutely digusted by the idea if she's attracted to you she's gonna wanna please you.plate's_empty said:What do you mean by "your girl"?
Are you saying your girl friend should be willing to lick your a$$hole? What if she doesn't want to?
So you expect a ONS to blow you?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This. If she has extremely high interest she will lick your arsehole. I have a plate who is in love with me and tells me she cant wait to have my cawk in her mouth later. Swallows too. Her words matches her actions.with the right guy, amost 100% of them
I'll give you a pretty good idea of the percentage of women that blow, simply look up the percentage of women married. The percent not married give head, the percent married don't, end of story.Whenever you're with a woman, do you assume she gives oral sex? Would you dump a woman that does not?
Do you give oral first or wait for her to give you a blow?
Married don't fvck or cook eitherI'll give you a pretty good idea of the percentage of women that blow, simply look up the percentage of women married. The percent not married give head, the percent married don't, end of story.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.