thelonewolflegend
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
what number am i?
- Thread starter thelonewolflegend
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
sylvester the cat
Master Don Juan
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have you read the dj bible?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maximus Rex
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I Think It Was Possible
Before thelonewolflegend started posting on here, I didn't think it was possible to get one than one red dot. If he reaches ten red dots will he be automatically banned?
Before thelonewolflegend started posting on here, I didn't think it was possible to get one than one red dot. If he reaches ten red dots will he be automatically banned?
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I've seen worse pof profiles.
Here's mine: http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=76958493
The pic is actually a buddy of mine getting beaten up. He jumped camp to go turn pro because he said all of us were holding him back. Then he proceeded to get beaten up a lot, which was hilarious to me. I do look a little like the guy on top. And I have plenty of pics of me fighting, so it's not that much of a lie to use a pic that isn't me.
As for yours, it's really not that awful. Change the ghetto-speak words like "masta" to the actual English word. And work on your pics. That one isn't awful, but you need more. Try to get pics of you doing something, action shots.
And I think you look normal, but if you want to attract more women, work on the ratio of your chest-to-waist size. You can either bulk up your chest or drop fat from your midsection. And I know it's winter now, but try to get a little sun when you can.
Here's mine: http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=76958493
The pic is actually a buddy of mine getting beaten up. He jumped camp to go turn pro because he said all of us were holding him back. Then he proceeded to get beaten up a lot, which was hilarious to me. I do look a little like the guy on top. And I have plenty of pics of me fighting, so it's not that much of a lie to use a pic that isn't me.
As for yours, it's really not that awful. Change the ghetto-speak words like "masta" to the actual English word. And work on your pics. That one isn't awful, but you need more. Try to get pics of you doing something, action shots.
And I think you look normal, but if you want to attract more women, work on the ratio of your chest-to-waist size. You can either bulk up your chest or drop fat from your midsection. And I know it's winter now, but try to get a little sun when you can.
Meisterman
Senior Don Juan
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I'm thinking he's just a giant troll. How is it that his biography is spelled flawlessly on that site yet on here he can barely form a coherent sentence? (Serious question).