thelonewolflegend
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
what number am i?
- Thread starter thelonewolflegend
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sylvester the cat
Master Don Juan
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have you read the dj bible?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maximus Rex
Banned
I Think It Was Possible
Before thelonewolflegend started posting on here, I didn't think it was possible to get one than one red dot. If he reaches ten red dots will he be automatically banned?
Before thelonewolflegend started posting on here, I didn't think it was possible to get one than one red dot. If he reaches ten red dots will he be automatically banned?
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I've seen worse pof profiles.
Here's mine: http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=76958493
The pic is actually a buddy of mine getting beaten up. He jumped camp to go turn pro because he said all of us were holding him back. Then he proceeded to get beaten up a lot, which was hilarious to me. I do look a little like the guy on top. And I have plenty of pics of me fighting, so it's not that much of a lie to use a pic that isn't me.
As for yours, it's really not that awful. Change the ghetto-speak words like "masta" to the actual English word. And work on your pics. That one isn't awful, but you need more. Try to get pics of you doing something, action shots.
And I think you look normal, but if you want to attract more women, work on the ratio of your chest-to-waist size. You can either bulk up your chest or drop fat from your midsection. And I know it's winter now, but try to get a little sun when you can.
Here's mine: http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=76958493
The pic is actually a buddy of mine getting beaten up. He jumped camp to go turn pro because he said all of us were holding him back. Then he proceeded to get beaten up a lot, which was hilarious to me. I do look a little like the guy on top. And I have plenty of pics of me fighting, so it's not that much of a lie to use a pic that isn't me.
As for yours, it's really not that awful. Change the ghetto-speak words like "masta" to the actual English word. And work on your pics. That one isn't awful, but you need more. Try to get pics of you doing something, action shots.
And I think you look normal, but if you want to attract more women, work on the ratio of your chest-to-waist size. You can either bulk up your chest or drop fat from your midsection. And I know it's winter now, but try to get a little sun when you can.
Meisterman
Senior Don Juan
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I'm thinking he's just a giant troll. How is it that his biography is spelled flawlessly on that site yet on here he can barely form a coherent sentence? (Serious question).