"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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there was this hot babe in my english class that i liked a lot. Made some moves, asked for the number, she told me she had a boyfriend.
A week before our final, I bought the SS home study course and was amazed by the fascination poem.
I gave her the fascination poem the day of the final with my email address in footnote.
Still havent gotten any response.
wondering what to do when i see her next quarter.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gangster Of Love

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Aren't those patterns/poems/phrases supposed to be delivered when you have the chick in front of you, one to one? Writing it down takes away a lot of the punch. The reason she hasn't responded is because she has a boyfriend. A lot of girls can't say no, so its easier for her to not respond than to respond and open a new can of worms and have to reject you the slow painful way. The best thing to do is act normal, not put too much emphazis on what she or any other girl does or says. You have an entire summer to work on yourself, and learn. Just go about your normal life next time you see her.
 

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Hey hun,
Okay, first I just want to say that if she isn't going to give you the time of day, then forget about her. You don't deserve that. Also, I am just going to be completely honest, but alot of girls get wierded out by poetry right away. Once you have been a relationship a little longer it is romantic, but there is always a time and place.
You seem like a really sweet guy though, so forget the chick, and find a girl who is going to put some effort into you!
Good luck sweety!
 
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