"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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there was this hot babe in my english class that i liked a lot. Made some moves, asked for the number, she told me she had a boyfriend.
A week before our final, I bought the SS home study course and was amazed by the fascination poem.
I gave her the fascination poem the day of the final with my email address in footnote.
Still havent gotten any response.
wondering what to do when i see her next quarter.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aren't those patterns/poems/phrases supposed to be delivered when you have the chick in front of you, one to one? Writing it down takes away a lot of the punch. The reason she hasn't responded is because she has a boyfriend. A lot of girls can't say no, so its easier for her to not respond than to respond and open a new can of worms and have to reject you the slow painful way. The best thing to do is act normal, not put too much emphazis on what she or any other girl does or says. You have an entire summer to work on yourself, and learn. Just go about your normal life next time you see her.
 
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Hey hun,
Okay, first I just want to say that if she isn't going to give you the time of day, then forget about her. You don't deserve that. Also, I am just going to be completely honest, but alot of girls get wierded out by poetry right away. Once you have been a relationship a little longer it is romantic, but there is always a time and place.
You seem like a really sweet guy though, so forget the chick, and find a girl who is going to put some effort into you!
Good luck sweety!
 
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