"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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there was this hot babe in my english class that i liked a lot. Made some moves, asked for the number, she told me she had a boyfriend.
A week before our final, I bought the SS home study course and was amazed by the fascination poem.
I gave her the fascination poem the day of the final with my email address in footnote.
Still havent gotten any response.
wondering what to do when i see her next quarter.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gangster Of Love

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Aren't those patterns/poems/phrases supposed to be delivered when you have the chick in front of you, one to one? Writing it down takes away a lot of the punch. The reason she hasn't responded is because she has a boyfriend. A lot of girls can't say no, so its easier for her to not respond than to respond and open a new can of worms and have to reject you the slow painful way. The best thing to do is act normal, not put too much emphazis on what she or any other girl does or says. You have an entire summer to work on yourself, and learn. Just go about your normal life next time you see her.
 

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Hey hun,
Okay, first I just want to say that if she isn't going to give you the time of day, then forget about her. You don't deserve that. Also, I am just going to be completely honest, but alot of girls get wierded out by poetry right away. Once you have been a relationship a little longer it is romantic, but there is always a time and place.
You seem like a really sweet guy though, so forget the chick, and find a girl who is going to put some effort into you!
Good luck sweety!
 
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