"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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there was this hot babe in my english class that i liked a lot. Made some moves, asked for the number, she told me she had a boyfriend.
A week before our final, I bought the SS home study course and was amazed by the fascination poem.
I gave her the fascination poem the day of the final with my email address in footnote.
Still havent gotten any response.
wondering what to do when i see her next quarter.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aren't those patterns/poems/phrases supposed to be delivered when you have the chick in front of you, one to one? Writing it down takes away a lot of the punch. The reason she hasn't responded is because she has a boyfriend. A lot of girls can't say no, so its easier for her to not respond than to respond and open a new can of worms and have to reject you the slow painful way. The best thing to do is act normal, not put too much emphazis on what she or any other girl does or says. You have an entire summer to work on yourself, and learn. Just go about your normal life next time you see her.
 
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Hey hun,
Okay, first I just want to say that if she isn't going to give you the time of day, then forget about her. You don't deserve that. Also, I am just going to be completely honest, but alot of girls get wierded out by poetry right away. Once you have been a relationship a little longer it is romantic, but there is always a time and place.
You seem like a really sweet guy though, so forget the chick, and find a girl who is going to put some effort into you!
Good luck sweety!
 
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