"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is a girl I see around almost daily.We've chit chat casually before. I finally ask her out:
Me: We should meet up this week for drinks.
Her: Sunday. I'm free Sundays.
Me: We'll meet at x place, give me your number
Her: Still a long way to go till Sunday. We'll still meet before then.

There it goes. I didn't get the number. Isn't it natural to exchange contacts after agreeing to a date?.
Seems the interaction is moving backwards.
What to do next?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Duke

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Her interest is medium. She probably has other dudes that she is hoping to go out with or isn't sure about you. I'd pick someone else to go out with.
 

magevis

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Her interest is medium. She probably has other dudes that she is hoping to go out with or isn't sure about you. I'd pick someone else to go out with.
I understand what you're saying. TBH I have nexted too many girls without ****ing them that I feel I should try harder.
This one seemed to have high interest in the past but cooled off for some reason, probably because I didn't ask her out soon enough.
 

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Isn't it natural to exchange contacts after agreeing to a date?
Not necessarily. A place, and date are set. That’s all you need for now. Confirm if you see her again, but don’t pose it as a question.
 

The Duke

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I suspect they feel rejected/miffed when a guy doesn't ask them out as soon as she thinks he should.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you don’t see her “around” then you know she is avoiding you. Sounds like she is waiting to see if something better comes along.
 
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