"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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magevis

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This is a girl I see around almost daily.We've chit chat casually before. I finally ask her out:
Me: We should meet up this week for drinks.
Her: Sunday. I'm free Sundays.
Me: We'll meet at x place, give me your number
Her: Still a long way to go till Sunday. We'll still meet before then.

There it goes. I didn't get the number. Isn't it natural to exchange contacts after agreeing to a date?.
Seems the interaction is moving backwards.
What to do next?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Duke

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Her interest is medium. She probably has other dudes that she is hoping to go out with or isn't sure about you. I'd pick someone else to go out with.
 

magevis

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Her interest is medium. She probably has other dudes that she is hoping to go out with or isn't sure about you. I'd pick someone else to go out with.
I understand what you're saying. TBH I have nexted too many girls without ****ing them that I feel I should try harder.
This one seemed to have high interest in the past but cooled off for some reason, probably because I didn't ask her out soon enough.
 

Billtx49

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Isn't it natural to exchange contacts after agreeing to a date?
Not necessarily. A place, and date are set. That’s all you need for now. Confirm if you see her again, but don’t pose it as a question.
 

The Duke

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I suspect they feel rejected/miffed when a guy doesn't ask them out as soon as she thinks he should.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mazer

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If you don’t see her “around” then you know she is avoiding you. Sounds like she is waiting to see if something better comes along.
 
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