"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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S.Y.L

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Ok, so basically this girl really showed interest in me for while, then she even said she liked me, and a day later, she gets a bf. I didn't ask her out cuz I wasn't sure if I liked her even, but now I just feel stupid, cuz I lost my chance.


WTF do I do now. The bf doesnt live near me or I have no clue who he is, so I couldn't give a **** about bros before hoes in this case, cuz I have no clue who he is.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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eaglez1177

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1. Never, NEVER believe or trust what a girl says as the complete truth. Judge girls by their actions, not their words. Doesnt matter if she says she loves you and wants to fvck you; its all completely meaningless until her actions follow her words.

2. This wouldnt really be a bros before hoes situation, cuz you dont even live near the bf and you dont even know him. It would be different if this chick's bf was one of your good friends.

What to do: If you really feel inclined to still try to get with this chick (and i'll bet money your chances are gone), just keep on working your game on her and act like she doesnt have a boyfriend. Try to advance on her, completely ignore the bf thing, and see what happens. If no immediate improvement, next her (that does not mean you should try to get with her for a month and then next her, next her wayyy earlier if you have any inclination that its not goin anywhere).
 
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I never really tried to hard with her at all anyways, since I never was that interested but, yeah Ill keep talking to her for a bit
 
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UPDATE:

this wont last long lol, this guy is the biggest AFC i have ever seen, they've been going out for not even a week, and the guys like, omg i love you, your the most amazing girl ever, i miss you so much, i cant be without you.


i laughed pretty hard.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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IMO after you take his girl and he inevitably comes looking for you, and considering he's an AFC I'm willing to bet that this will happen over facebook or AIM, when he messages you *****ing at you, don't even respond to him. Just simply type "www.sosuave.net" and ignore him.


It will be glorious.
 
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Brighty said:
IMO after you take his girl and he inevitably comes looking for you, and considering he's an AFC I'm willing to bet that this will happen over facebook or AIM, when he messages you *****ing at you, don't even respond to him. Just simply type "www.sosuave.net" and ignore him.


It will be glorious.
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That would be insane hahahah and brighty, your sig applies only to America. Where I live. Nice.
 
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