"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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S.Y.L

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Ok, so basically this girl really showed interest in me for while, then she even said she liked me, and a day later, she gets a bf. I didn't ask her out cuz I wasn't sure if I liked her even, but now I just feel stupid, cuz I lost my chance.


WTF do I do now. The bf doesnt live near me or I have no clue who he is, so I couldn't give a **** about bros before hoes in this case, cuz I have no clue who he is.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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eaglez1177

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1. Never, NEVER believe or trust what a girl says as the complete truth. Judge girls by their actions, not their words. Doesnt matter if she says she loves you and wants to fvck you; its all completely meaningless until her actions follow her words.

2. This wouldnt really be a bros before hoes situation, cuz you dont even live near the bf and you dont even know him. It would be different if this chick's bf was one of your good friends.

What to do: If you really feel inclined to still try to get with this chick (and i'll bet money your chances are gone), just keep on working your game on her and act like she doesnt have a boyfriend. Try to advance on her, completely ignore the bf thing, and see what happens. If no immediate improvement, next her (that does not mean you should try to get with her for a month and then next her, next her wayyy earlier if you have any inclination that its not goin anywhere).
 
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I never really tried to hard with her at all anyways, since I never was that interested but, yeah Ill keep talking to her for a bit
 
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UPDATE:

this wont last long lol, this guy is the biggest AFC i have ever seen, they've been going out for not even a week, and the guys like, omg i love you, your the most amazing girl ever, i miss you so much, i cant be without you.


i laughed pretty hard.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IMO after you take his girl and he inevitably comes looking for you, and considering he's an AFC I'm willing to bet that this will happen over facebook or AIM, when he messages you *****ing at you, don't even respond to him. Just simply type "www.sosuave.net" and ignore him.


It will be glorious.
 
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Brighty said:
IMO after you take his girl and he inevitably comes looking for you, and considering he's an AFC I'm willing to bet that this will happen over facebook or AIM, when he messages you *****ing at you, don't even respond to him. Just simply type "www.sosuave.net" and ignore him.


It will be glorious.
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That would be insane hahahah and brighty, your sig applies only to America. Where I live. Nice.
 
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