"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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S.Y.L

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Ok, so basically this girl really showed interest in me for while, then she even said she liked me, and a day later, she gets a bf. I didn't ask her out cuz I wasn't sure if I liked her even, but now I just feel stupid, cuz I lost my chance.


WTF do I do now. The bf doesnt live near me or I have no clue who he is, so I couldn't give a **** about bros before hoes in this case, cuz I have no clue who he is.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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eaglez1177

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1. Never, NEVER believe or trust what a girl says as the complete truth. Judge girls by their actions, not their words. Doesnt matter if she says she loves you and wants to fvck you; its all completely meaningless until her actions follow her words.

2. This wouldnt really be a bros before hoes situation, cuz you dont even live near the bf and you dont even know him. It would be different if this chick's bf was one of your good friends.

What to do: If you really feel inclined to still try to get with this chick (and i'll bet money your chances are gone), just keep on working your game on her and act like she doesnt have a boyfriend. Try to advance on her, completely ignore the bf thing, and see what happens. If no immediate improvement, next her (that does not mean you should try to get with her for a month and then next her, next her wayyy earlier if you have any inclination that its not goin anywhere).
 
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I never really tried to hard with her at all anyways, since I never was that interested but, yeah Ill keep talking to her for a bit
 
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UPDATE:

this wont last long lol, this guy is the biggest AFC i have ever seen, they've been going out for not even a week, and the guys like, omg i love you, your the most amazing girl ever, i miss you so much, i cant be without you.


i laughed pretty hard.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IMO after you take his girl and he inevitably comes looking for you, and considering he's an AFC I'm willing to bet that this will happen over facebook or AIM, when he messages you *****ing at you, don't even respond to him. Just simply type "www.sosuave.net" and ignore him.


It will be glorious.
 
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Brighty said:
IMO after you take his girl and he inevitably comes looking for you, and considering he's an AFC I'm willing to bet that this will happen over facebook or AIM, when he messages you *****ing at you, don't even respond to him. Just simply type "www.sosuave.net" and ignore him.


It will be glorious.
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That would be insane hahahah and brighty, your sig applies only to America. Where I live. Nice.
 
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