Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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S.Y.L

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Ok, so basically this girl really showed interest in me for while, then she even said she liked me, and a day later, she gets a bf. I didn't ask her out cuz I wasn't sure if I liked her even, but now I just feel stupid, cuz I lost my chance.


WTF do I do now. The bf doesnt live near me or I have no clue who he is, so I couldn't give a **** about bros before hoes in this case, cuz I have no clue who he is.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eaglez1177

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1. Never, NEVER believe or trust what a girl says as the complete truth. Judge girls by their actions, not their words. Doesnt matter if she says she loves you and wants to fvck you; its all completely meaningless until her actions follow her words.

2. This wouldnt really be a bros before hoes situation, cuz you dont even live near the bf and you dont even know him. It would be different if this chick's bf was one of your good friends.

What to do: If you really feel inclined to still try to get with this chick (and i'll bet money your chances are gone), just keep on working your game on her and act like she doesnt have a boyfriend. Try to advance on her, completely ignore the bf thing, and see what happens. If no immediate improvement, next her (that does not mean you should try to get with her for a month and then next her, next her wayyy earlier if you have any inclination that its not goin anywhere).
 

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I never really tried to hard with her at all anyways, since I never was that interested but, yeah Ill keep talking to her for a bit
 

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UPDATE:

this wont last long lol, this guy is the biggest AFC i have ever seen, they've been going out for not even a week, and the guys like, omg i love you, your the most amazing girl ever, i miss you so much, i cant be without you.


i laughed pretty hard.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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IMO after you take his girl and he inevitably comes looking for you, and considering he's an AFC I'm willing to bet that this will happen over facebook or AIM, when he messages you *****ing at you, don't even respond to him. Just simply type "www.sosuave.net" and ignore him.


It will be glorious.
 

Ice882

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Brighty said:
IMO after you take his girl and he inevitably comes looking for you, and considering he's an AFC I'm willing to bet that this will happen over facebook or AIM, when he messages you *****ing at you, don't even respond to him. Just simply type "www.sosuave.net" and ignore him.


It will be glorious.

That would be insane hahahah and brighty, your sig applies only to America. Where I live. Nice.
 
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