"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What now? How to keep it rolling?

pancakepalace

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Hi guys,

I have been dating this great girl since december. She is definitely one I want to keep and things are great now.

We had a few bumps a few months back but I handle everything the right way using the DJ bible. In fact, the tips it gave me worked wonders. I find myself breaking away from my AFC patterns of past times.

My question is "How do I keep it going good?". What are the most important factors to keeping the relationship interesting and fresh?

She is definitely LTR relationship. I just want to make sure to keep on the ball and not take her for granted.

Thanks for your help guys,
pancake
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desdinova

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Just keep things fun. Whenever you go out on a date, make sure you keep fun as a priority. Also, continue to tease her and treat her as if you were still on your first couple of dates. Don't focus too much on romance, although a little bit of romance here and there is good for any relationship. Just don't overdo it.

It's the fun that keeps a woman attracted to you. If you can provide some spontaneous fun, she'll know you're a rarity and a keeper.
 

libre

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Ha ha ha!

I love the advice given already.

Glad that your beautifull fiddle is falling in tune. My own advice is for you to choose the tune and the tempo that you want to play. She seems to be craving your steadfast beat. Don't let her antics sway you; she possibly wants you to show that you are the man with the baton in the orchestra. Play your solo and she'll continue to join you.
 
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