Dongfu
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The basic function of the neg is to establish yourself as being of higher value than your target. There are several ways to do this, the neg being the lowest form, and usually attracts low value women.
Negging might might help you get a woman who is a 10 as far as looks, but she will also usually be a superficial person. Otherwise why would she fall for it. Try negging a cool chick, who is hot, has her sht together and is also a real person. You'll just seem like an idiot to her.
So here are the next two levels above negging, that still serve the same purpose - to establish yourself as having higher value.
In stage 2 you no longer use insults or judgmental comments to set yourself up. Stage 2 is about directly establishing yourself as the prize.
As an example you could say something like this to a target once you've began a conversation:
You: You know, honestly, there are a lot of women who are interested in me.
Her: "Oh really, why is that?" She may offer a sarcastic comment, but she is interested none the less.
You: It's simple. I have something that 99.9% of men don't have, and most women can sense it.
Her: Oh yeah, what's that?
You - smiling: Hey, I don't give out my secrets that easily, you have to earn it. You're getting close, but you haven't earned it yet.
You - without letting her respond: Here's the problem . . . are you ready for this? Of all the women I've spent time with recently, none of them quite has what it takes to maintain my interest. Now, here's the important question. Do you feel that you might have what it takes?
In stage 2 of negging you are creating a situation where you are challenging her to prove her worth to you. You don't actually have to devalue her.
For this to be effective, however, you actually do have to have something that most guys dont, otherwise you wont be believable. Great sexual skills would be an example of something you could posses that sets you apart. Luckily, most guys dont really know what they are doing in bed.
In stage 3, the highest stage, there is no longer a need to verbally communicate any strategy of raising your value or putting hers on trial. As you become a master, the vibration of value and success radiates off of you. It goes without saying, and women can feel and sense it. It's like when you see a guy, and he may not be that big, but something about his vibe tells you to not fcuk with him. You just feel that this person could beat you down like nothing. B.J. Penn is like that. He's a small guy, but his vibration is big, and the biggest guys around here never messed with him, even in highschool.
If you still need to use negs to get women interested, then you are not truly of a higher value. You actually believe you are inferior, so you must resort to trickery. But. hey, it works anyways. So use negs if you still need that crutch, but there are other ways that will get very different types of women.
Negging might might help you get a woman who is a 10 as far as looks, but she will also usually be a superficial person. Otherwise why would she fall for it. Try negging a cool chick, who is hot, has her sht together and is also a real person. You'll just seem like an idiot to her.
So here are the next two levels above negging, that still serve the same purpose - to establish yourself as having higher value.
In stage 2 you no longer use insults or judgmental comments to set yourself up. Stage 2 is about directly establishing yourself as the prize.
As an example you could say something like this to a target once you've began a conversation:
You: You know, honestly, there are a lot of women who are interested in me.
Her: "Oh really, why is that?" She may offer a sarcastic comment, but she is interested none the less.
You: It's simple. I have something that 99.9% of men don't have, and most women can sense it.
Her: Oh yeah, what's that?
You - smiling: Hey, I don't give out my secrets that easily, you have to earn it. You're getting close, but you haven't earned it yet.
You - without letting her respond: Here's the problem . . . are you ready for this? Of all the women I've spent time with recently, none of them quite has what it takes to maintain my interest. Now, here's the important question. Do you feel that you might have what it takes?
In stage 2 of negging you are creating a situation where you are challenging her to prove her worth to you. You don't actually have to devalue her.
For this to be effective, however, you actually do have to have something that most guys dont, otherwise you wont be believable. Great sexual skills would be an example of something you could posses that sets you apart. Luckily, most guys dont really know what they are doing in bed.
In stage 3, the highest stage, there is no longer a need to verbally communicate any strategy of raising your value or putting hers on trial. As you become a master, the vibration of value and success radiates off of you. It goes without saying, and women can feel and sense it. It's like when you see a guy, and he may not be that big, but something about his vibe tells you to not fcuk with him. You just feel that this person could beat you down like nothing. B.J. Penn is like that. He's a small guy, but his vibration is big, and the biggest guys around here never messed with him, even in highschool.
If you still need to use negs to get women interested, then you are not truly of a higher value. You actually believe you are inferior, so you must resort to trickery. But. hey, it works anyways. So use negs if you still need that crutch, but there are other ways that will get very different types of women.
