"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What motivates you to pursue women?

JdelaSilviera

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Hi,

First, I just wanna point out that picking women is not difficult for me, and should n´t be to anyone. . You might a swell just created this problem in your own minds. There is not any science to it, and you certainly don´t need books or DVD´s from pick up gurus.
Just be relaxed, fun, a little bit ****y/ over confident, have some female friends and a moderate social life, and you are good to go.

Now what I would like to know is, what motivates you to chase women? Many guys feel they need a girlfriend, or to fvck women to feel manly, but do you really? If you are pursuing happiness, is this really the way? A loving relationship with an almost perfect partner might well be, but sex certainly is not.

The problem is to find a perfect partner, or someone with whom you get along really well. We all know that is not an easy task. Specially today.

You certainly notice, how kids behavior worsens in each generation. What is the cause of this? Their parents who spoiled them. In a similar way, women of today, are as much spoiled as they could possibly be, not only they get eye fvcked by each guy who passes by them on the street, but they are constantly bombarded with messages in their phones from pursuers (key point: many are less confident males who are well above their league, but who think they can´t get any better)...

I could also say, that I´m 23.. and most women around my age, not to tell 25+, are completly out of shape. Their bodies become really a mess.
And most women, are not that smart either.

Let me repeat, I think that it must be great, to have a smart, good looking / in shape, good morals etc. But today is so hard to find. Is this your goal? to search for a girl like this?

Women are always complaining, about not finding a prince charming. Most of them are ugly (although maked up very well), out of shape, stupid (only gossip about other people), and they want a smart, good looking, in shape, successful man of good values. Is this a joke?

I can tell that 90% of women don´t fit my criteria, and I do think I´m reasonable, I´m not asking for a fitness model for sure.

I have so many interests in life, that honestly I don´t really mind about finding someone now, I know I wouldn´t be happy with a person who is just average. How can you?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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I enjoy girls like I enjoy cars. I like seeing pretty girls. This is what motivates me to get a new "car". This is also a problem because I do seem to get tired of different females very easily. I want to get the most luxurious and beautiful car there is!
 

Jair213

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Rightnow at this point to fuc'k, I'm horny dude. I got more important things going on in my life, goals, school degree, etc.
 

LowPlainsDrifter

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I've been alone for quite a while. Didn't feel like putting too much effort into the pickup or anything.
There's a saying that goes something like, "you won't make a change until the pain point crosses over and exceeds your comfort point."
Having no one in my life and not having to get my (beep) together is lonely, but comfortable in a certain way.
Then the pain of the lack of companionship has exceeded the comfort of my routines, and motivated me to eat better, work out, start to look for sharper clothes, and start seriously purusing PUA material, instead of just sort of casually glancing at it, in a sort of robotic boredom-alleviation mode.
 

McMotherLover

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Mostly cause I wanna have sex. But I also enjoy chasing and playing the game. The more girls I get the more accomplished I feel. It's like acquiring anything else in your lifetime- a degree, property, nice cars, boats, motorcycles, etc...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ezio

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McMotherLover said:
Mostly cause I wanna have sex. But I also enjoy chasing and playing the game. The more girls I get the more accomplished I feel. It's like acquiring anything else in your lifetime- a degree, property, nice cars, boats, motorcycles, etc...
^^this
 

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Women are more sensuous creatures than men.

A healthy woman who has not been masculinized (which the work environment often does) will hear, see, smell and feel things that her man won't. That's why taking them for a walk in nature can be so romantic - they will point out flowers and birds and animals that a man wouldn't notice as quickly. Their aura radiates the essence of femininity (the opposite of Feminism).
 

ALPHAROMEO

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Your Methods

SILVIERA BUDDY

PLEASE TELL US IN EXACT DETAILS ABOUT YOUR APPROACHING THE GIRLS

OPENERS ETC

supermarket approaches ?
 

LostAndConfused

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Addressing your problem about no attractive girls your age...

Where the hell are you at, bro?

To me, the 23 year old girls at the bar are at the apex of their sexual peaks, and they're fcking hot. They're just sorta turned off by the fact that I'm 21......
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yo'Mama

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Previously lust and a stupid need for validation.

Now not much really, which is why I'm not. And I'm beginning to notice them coming to me..........
 

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bigneil said:
Women are more sensuous creatures than men.

A healthy woman who has not been masculinized (which the work environment often does) will hear, see, smell and feel things that her man won't. That's why taking them for a walk in nature can be so romantic - they will point out flowers and birds and animals that a man wouldn't notice as quickly. Their aura radiates the essence of femininity (the opposite of Feminism).
I point out to things like that all the time. Not all men are into beer and cars. I notice these things very well when I'm out. I'm a little into photographer and always spot things of beauty. Even with women.
 

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To tell you the truth... my first motive right now is just plainly simple getting laid and say sayonara to my v card.

But to a certain extent I want to be able to have models. I'm in the visual arts and its very important for me if girls can be that "spontaneous" if you know what I mean.
 

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Their vagina, of course. Furthermore, at my age most girls are stupid, ignorant and superficial. It's a pain trying to have a nice conversation with one (with some exceptions, mind you).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What motivates me to pursue women? To have them tell me how I can be a better, more sensitive to their needs nice guy that they all claim to desire. LMAO.
 
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