"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What motivates you to pursue women?

JdelaSilviera

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Hi,

First, I just wanna point out that picking women is not difficult for me, and should n´t be to anyone. . You might a swell just created this problem in your own minds. There is not any science to it, and you certainly don´t need books or DVD´s from pick up gurus.
Just be relaxed, fun, a little bit ****y/ over confident, have some female friends and a moderate social life, and you are good to go.

Now what I would like to know is, what motivates you to chase women? Many guys feel they need a girlfriend, or to fvck women to feel manly, but do you really? If you are pursuing happiness, is this really the way? A loving relationship with an almost perfect partner might well be, but sex certainly is not.

The problem is to find a perfect partner, or someone with whom you get along really well. We all know that is not an easy task. Specially today.

You certainly notice, how kids behavior worsens in each generation. What is the cause of this? Their parents who spoiled them. In a similar way, women of today, are as much spoiled as they could possibly be, not only they get eye fvcked by each guy who passes by them on the street, but they are constantly bombarded with messages in their phones from pursuers (key point: many are less confident males who are well above their league, but who think they can´t get any better)...

I could also say, that I´m 23.. and most women around my age, not to tell 25+, are completly out of shape. Their bodies become really a mess.
And most women, are not that smart either.

Let me repeat, I think that it must be great, to have a smart, good looking / in shape, good morals etc. But today is so hard to find. Is this your goal? to search for a girl like this?

Women are always complaining, about not finding a prince charming. Most of them are ugly (although maked up very well), out of shape, stupid (only gossip about other people), and they want a smart, good looking, in shape, successful man of good values. Is this a joke?

I can tell that 90% of women don´t fit my criteria, and I do think I´m reasonable, I´m not asking for a fitness model for sure.

I have so many interests in life, that honestly I don´t really mind about finding someone now, I know I wouldn´t be happy with a person who is just average. How can you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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I enjoy girls like I enjoy cars. I like seeing pretty girls. This is what motivates me to get a new "car". This is also a problem because I do seem to get tired of different females very easily. I want to get the most luxurious and beautiful car there is!
 

Jair213

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Rightnow at this point to fuc'k, I'm horny dude. I got more important things going on in my life, goals, school degree, etc.
 

LowPlainsDrifter

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I've been alone for quite a while. Didn't feel like putting too much effort into the pickup or anything.
There's a saying that goes something like, "you won't make a change until the pain point crosses over and exceeds your comfort point."
Having no one in my life and not having to get my (beep) together is lonely, but comfortable in a certain way.
Then the pain of the lack of companionship has exceeded the comfort of my routines, and motivated me to eat better, work out, start to look for sharper clothes, and start seriously purusing PUA material, instead of just sort of casually glancing at it, in a sort of robotic boredom-alleviation mode.
 

McMotherLover

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Mostly cause I wanna have sex. But I also enjoy chasing and playing the game. The more girls I get the more accomplished I feel. It's like acquiring anything else in your lifetime- a degree, property, nice cars, boats, motorcycles, etc...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ezio

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McMotherLover said:
Mostly cause I wanna have sex. But I also enjoy chasing and playing the game. The more girls I get the more accomplished I feel. It's like acquiring anything else in your lifetime- a degree, property, nice cars, boats, motorcycles, etc...
^^this
 

bigneil

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Women are more sensuous creatures than men.

A healthy woman who has not been masculinized (which the work environment often does) will hear, see, smell and feel things that her man won't. That's why taking them for a walk in nature can be so romantic - they will point out flowers and birds and animals that a man wouldn't notice as quickly. Their aura radiates the essence of femininity (the opposite of Feminism).
 

ALPHAROMEO

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Your Methods

SILVIERA BUDDY

PLEASE TELL US IN EXACT DETAILS ABOUT YOUR APPROACHING THE GIRLS

OPENERS ETC

supermarket approaches ?
 

LostAndConfused

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Addressing your problem about no attractive girls your age...

Where the hell are you at, bro?

To me, the 23 year old girls at the bar are at the apex of their sexual peaks, and they're fcking hot. They're just sorta turned off by the fact that I'm 21......
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yo'Mama

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Previously lust and a stupid need for validation.

Now not much really, which is why I'm not. And I'm beginning to notice them coming to me..........
 

HappyHarryHardon

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bigneil said:
Women are more sensuous creatures than men.

A healthy woman who has not been masculinized (which the work environment often does) will hear, see, smell and feel things that her man won't. That's why taking them for a walk in nature can be so romantic - they will point out flowers and birds and animals that a man wouldn't notice as quickly. Their aura radiates the essence of femininity (the opposite of Feminism).
I point out to things like that all the time. Not all men are into beer and cars. I notice these things very well when I'm out. I'm a little into photographer and always spot things of beauty. Even with women.
 

Leopold

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To tell you the truth... my first motive right now is just plainly simple getting laid and say sayonara to my v card.

But to a certain extent I want to be able to have models. I'm in the visual arts and its very important for me if girls can be that "spontaneous" if you know what I mean.
 

StormScar

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Their vagina, of course. Furthermore, at my age most girls are stupid, ignorant and superficial. It's a pain trying to have a nice conversation with one (with some exceptions, mind you).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Naughty Ninja

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What motivates me to pursue women? To have them tell me how I can be a better, more sensitive to their needs nice guy that they all claim to desire. LMAO.
 
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