iqqi
Master Don Juan
This is really a question, not some how to thread.
First and foremost, I am a girl, for the newbies.
And please ignore or report any flaming posts that will inevitably be made by those who fear and oppose my gender.
Recently I have noticed an alarming trend among the young fellas who hit on me. They use gimmicks. I'm talking corny sh!t that they saw on Mr. Mystery's BS show way back when. Literally a guy tried to do some fortune telling trick or something the other night, by grabbing my hand and who knows what the hell he was saying because we were at a club, the music was loud, I was drunk and basically didn't give a crap about some hand magic BS. And I notice a lot of guys on this site also hang onto the gimmicks they learn here, without the deeper lessons that you can find on this thread.
Honestly the best advice you were ever given in life was from your mama, who said "be yourself."
But... you want to be your best self.
You want to be natural in your abilities to attract people and make them want to be around you.
You will never be natural if your body language and everything else is unnatural, due to the fact that you are pretending to be some way you are not.
The solution to this, is to figure out what you are passionate about. What are you great at? What makes you interesting? Passion and knowledge are two very sexy things about a man, and if you can direct this correctly and immerse it into something social, then you will find yourself attracting more people. You will have more to talk about, that you actually care about, and will find yourself talking about it with people who care about the same thing... or care about YOU because you are so freaking interesting all of a sudden.
SO. Let's make this thread interactive.
What makes you cool, little grasshoppers?
First and foremost, I am a girl, for the newbies.
And please ignore or report any flaming posts that will inevitably be made by those who fear and oppose my gender.
Recently I have noticed an alarming trend among the young fellas who hit on me. They use gimmicks. I'm talking corny sh!t that they saw on Mr. Mystery's BS show way back when. Literally a guy tried to do some fortune telling trick or something the other night, by grabbing my hand and who knows what the hell he was saying because we were at a club, the music was loud, I was drunk and basically didn't give a crap about some hand magic BS. And I notice a lot of guys on this site also hang onto the gimmicks they learn here, without the deeper lessons that you can find on this thread.
Honestly the best advice you were ever given in life was from your mama, who said "be yourself."
But... you want to be your best self.
You want to be natural in your abilities to attract people and make them want to be around you.
You will never be natural if your body language and everything else is unnatural, due to the fact that you are pretending to be some way you are not.
The solution to this, is to figure out what you are passionate about. What are you great at? What makes you interesting? Passion and knowledge are two very sexy things about a man, and if you can direct this correctly and immerse it into something social, then you will find yourself attracting more people. You will have more to talk about, that you actually care about, and will find yourself talking about it with people who care about the same thing... or care about YOU because you are so freaking interesting all of a sudden.
SO. Let's make this thread interactive.
What makes you cool, little grasshoppers?