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Master Don Juan
Natural Amazingness VS. learning "skills" or tricks
I am not talking about learning new skills or people skills at all, for that matter.
The main point I want to get across is that at pretty much everyone's core, they have something really cool going on for them. And they need to recognize that. What it is, and how to really see that says a lot about who they are, and who they need to be hanging with. If you are more concerned with your love for comic books and your natural artistic ability, then you are going to attract someone who really digs that about you easier and better than learning some hand trick to try and attract the Britney Spears crew.
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The first point to take away is that really representing your own talents make you automatically passionate and natural with something.
And the second point is that the people you attract with that particular passion will be the best people for you to be around, anyways.
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The body language point Warrior74 made was great, however that is a whole other post.
Great discussion so far, by the way. Some of you who recognize what draws people to you, should elaborate for others, or maybe start a thread in the tips section. Seems like some good knowledge.
I don't have a lot of time to really comment on every alternapoint made, however I will use this quote to make a specific point.Warrior74 said:
I am not talking about learning new skills or people skills at all, for that matter.
The main point I want to get across is that at pretty much everyone's core, they have something really cool going on for them. And they need to recognize that. What it is, and how to really see that says a lot about who they are, and who they need to be hanging with. If you are more concerned with your love for comic books and your natural artistic ability, then you are going to attract someone who really digs that about you easier and better than learning some hand trick to try and attract the Britney Spears crew.
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The first point to take away is that really representing your own talents make you automatically passionate and natural with something.
And the second point is that the people you attract with that particular passion will be the best people for you to be around, anyways.
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The body language point Warrior74 made was great, however that is a whole other post.
Great discussion so far, by the way. Some of you who recognize what draws people to you, should elaborate for others, or maybe start a thread in the tips section. Seems like some good knowledge.