"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What makes a girl attractive to YOU personally?

Eighth Passenger

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I look for these qualities in a female.

LOOKS:

* Sexy Lips
* Gorgeous Eyes
* Curvy
* Pretty Feet (must be soft and taken care of)
* Cute Butt
* B or C Breast Size
* Pleasant, inviting face (I don't like girls who frown or have a "leave me alone" face)

PERSONALITY:

* Quiet (but a freak)
* Enjoys Conversation
* Spontaneous
* Loyal
* Honest

That's about it. What qualities should a girl posess that'll make you attracted to her?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Everything you posted for me, but I don't like women with big breast for some reason... B is big enough for me.

Add long hair and has to be very sassy.
 

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For me it's so variable I can't even narrow it down. I don't have a single criteria that I stick by. Usually I go for overall congruency.
 

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I'm into all those qualities plus girls that are very feminine and girls who look good in skirts.
 

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also I can't date a girl that won't give oral...I just can't.

Pretty feet are a must for me as well. I have dated a girl in the past soley on her having the pretties feet I have ever seen.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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They just have to have an excellent personality, intelligent, and fun. I can get away with the fact that my girl is alittle overweight but not much. I am more attracted to the right kind of personality, I protect my heart.
 

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Nice smile, fun, most of all, good personality.
 

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Originally posted by backbreaker
Pretty feet are a must for me as well. I have dated a girl in the past soley on her having the pretties feet I have ever seen.
I saw a girl today with extremely pretty feet. I was about to ask her out just because of her feet. lol

(she looked young though, that's why I didn't approach her)
 

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Damn I thought I was one of the only guys that loved girls with pretty feet. If a girl that I would normally consider a 6 had absolutely beautiful feet I would rate her an 8. I have a major foot fetish.

Personality wise I like a girl that has a really positive attitude.
 

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I like going to the gym, so a girl who exhibits the same passion for taking care of themselves is always attractive. They dont need to be supermodels, but I am just not into fat girls at all. Aside from pretty looks, a fun personality is a must, as they must be a strange breed to stick up with my love for hockey and other aspects of life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Most young guys, will go for the hotties. (Generalization, but, still, very true.)

As they grow older, they realize that looks are nothing, attitude/personality is everything.

I think Doc Love coined the phrase

"Looks fade away, attitude lasts forever".
 

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Originally posted by Fatality
Damn I thought I was one of the only guys that loved girls with pretty feet. If a girl that I would normally consider a 6 had absolutely beautiful feet I would rate her an 8. I have a major foot fetish.

Personality wise I like a girl that has a really positive attitude.
I'm a foot man too, dayum.... ;) seems like more people like feet than I once thought.

I like girls who are spontaneous and confident (doesn't take every word to heart)
Looks-wise, I like firm round butts, smooth legs, nice hands, and an inviting face.
 

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Here is the answer in three words.

Interest. In. Me.







Also, no fat chicks. K thx bye
 

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Originally posted by NoBull
I'm a foot man too, dayum.... ;) seems like more people like feet than I once thought.

Yeah, the feet are nice, but that ain't the 'sole' feature. I like em to have a body to go with those feet.

....I'm talkin' stackin' and packin'.

As for facial features, it varies. I like the innocent cute look, but I also like the sexy bad girls.... The type that looks like she could rob a bank and give you a BJ at the same time.
 

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Originally posted by KC_Seductive
Yeah, the feet are nice, but that ain't the 'sole' feature. I like em to have a body to go with those feet.

I have a giant foot fetish but I could care a less what a girls feet look like if she has a bad face and body.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good topic*

Hmm.

Looks:
Not to picky, I like long hair and a nice smile. I like dimples and medium to small noses.

Not to thin and well I try not to focus on the chest area if I can help it.

Personality:
Nice, outgoing and friendly. I like assertiveness and someone who loves to laugh. Open mindedness couldn't hurt too. In addition to what you all have said personality wise.
 

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All the obvious things. But one thing that can turn an average girl into an attractive girl like magic is humor. Girls think they have a good sense of humor but most don't have humor for shiet. They can laugh at a good joke but can't make me laugh in rertun. So when the rare girl comes along that really makes me laugh...wow...she can go from being a 7 to an 8.5 immiediately. I don't see her as more attractive, I just feel more attracted to her. Although, it's a temporary spell. lol. If she can't keep up the humor I soon get tired of her ugliness and will quickly lose interest. haha.

But yeah, a good sense of humor!
 

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I get turned on by short women ,and women with small hands(fists).
 

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oh god, there's a bunch of stuff that turns me on a/b girls

appearance:
- cute face
- gorgeous/killer eyes
- straight/white teeth, lovely smile
- looks happy
- not too big on da boobs, a B is cool w/ me
- has to have a nice azz
- nice slender look, w/ perfect midsection

(all those dont have to be tru 4 me to like a girl, they are just general qualities)

personality:
-funny/fun to be w/
- laughs a lot, and not too serious
- caring, kind, sweetheart
- lets ya do the sweet **** (open doors, pull out chairs)

(personality is a major factor in deciding if i wanna pursue a girl. so wat if she's an HB10, if she is a biznitch then 4get her)

of course looks attract, but personality keeps that initial attraction
 

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Shania Twain.

Any chick that can sing and sings TO ME.

I AM PUTTY IN HER PAWS

my most memorable ex gf's were the once that sang to me

;)



Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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