"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What made this girl approach me?

Magnatolia

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I was at a nightclub/bar the other weekend for a guys bday party. I went with about 4 female friends - I'm quite shy when it comes to a bunch of people I don't know so spent some time goofing around with my friends, plus a few of the guys I met chatted to me every now and then.

Then this girl comes up to me and chats. We end up kissing for a while. Thing is I don't even know what I did to make that happen. I know I was drinking tequila for a change so I'm guessing that took the edge off.

Any thoughts? Is it because I obviously had my friends approval?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KingBeef

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Magnatolia said:
I was at a nightclub/bar the other weekend for a guys bday party. I went with about 4 female friends - I'm quite shy when it comes to a bunch of people I don't know so spent some time goofing around with my friends, plus a few of the guys I met chatted to me every now and then.

Then this girl comes up to me and chats. We end up kissing for a while. Thing is I don't even know what I did to make that happen. I know I was drinking tequila for a change so I'm guessing that took the edge off.

Any thoughts? Is it because I obviously had my friends approval?

Maybe the fact that you went clubbing with 4 HOT CHICKS :crazy: :crazy: IT'S CALLED SOCIAL PROOF.....nothing can help you look more appealling to women than to be seen with a lot of attractive women
 

The Sperminator

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Social proof, she was drunk, she thought you were good looking. One of those or a couple of those.
 

decades

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this happens to me when I drink a lot. I end up with women and I have no idea how. I think we are C & F when we drink enough Tequila, and we don't even realize it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Triple T

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persistent exaction said:
this happens to me when I drink a lot. I end up with women and I have no idea how. I think we are C & F when we drink enough Tequila, and we don't even realize it.
Or maybe they are too drunk to care what you say or look like. :cool:
 
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