"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What made this girl approach me?

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Magnatolia

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I was at a nightclub/bar the other weekend for a guys bday party. I went with about 4 female friends - I'm quite shy when it comes to a bunch of people I don't know so spent some time goofing around with my friends, plus a few of the guys I met chatted to me every now and then.

Then this girl comes up to me and chats. We end up kissing for a while. Thing is I don't even know what I did to make that happen. I know I was drinking tequila for a change so I'm guessing that took the edge off.

Any thoughts? Is it because I obviously had my friends approval?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Magnatolia said:
I was at a nightclub/bar the other weekend for a guys bday party. I went with about 4 female friends - I'm quite shy when it comes to a bunch of people I don't know so spent some time goofing around with my friends, plus a few of the guys I met chatted to me every now and then.

Then this girl comes up to me and chats. We end up kissing for a while. Thing is I don't even know what I did to make that happen. I know I was drinking tequila for a change so I'm guessing that took the edge off.

Any thoughts? Is it because I obviously had my friends approval?
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Maybe the fact that you went clubbing with 4 HOT CHICKS :crazy: :crazy: IT'S CALLED SOCIAL PROOF.....nothing can help you look more appealling to women than to be seen with a lot of attractive women
 
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Social proof, she was drunk, she thought you were good looking. One of those or a couple of those.
 
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decades

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this happens to me when I drink a lot. I end up with women and I have no idea how. I think we are C & F when we drink enough Tequila, and we don't even realize it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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persistent exaction said:
this happens to me when I drink a lot. I end up with women and I have no idea how. I think we are C & F when we drink enough Tequila, and we don't even realize it.
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Or maybe they are too drunk to care what you say or look like. :cool:
 
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