"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What Leo's Oscar win taught us

Lozboss

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DJs,

Leo Di Caprio won an oscar last night, 23 years after his first nomination. How is this relevant for DJs you may ask?

Well I shall enlighten you:

Perseverance

Whether its your cold approaches, your OLD dating, nofap streaks or your weight lifting / fitness goals. Perseverance is a key to success. Keep at it.

External Validation isn't necessary

Leo has widely been seen as one of the best actors on the planet. Yet he hasn't got an Oscar. This shows you that it is what you DO and who you ARE that means the most. Not symbols of validation.

Seeking External Validation is worthless. Build yourself into a great being and people will soon recognise your greatness.

The Destination is often not as satisfying as the struggle

True satisfaction is overcoming hardship, or the struggle to achieve. One sits atop the mountain and looks at the slopes he climbed with such difficultly and is content. Those placed on top of the mountain so not share such satisfaction.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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salinechow

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DJs,

Leo Di Caprio won an oscar last night, 23 years after his first nomination. How is this relevant for DJs you may ask?

Well I shall enlighten you:

Perseverance

Whether its your cold approaches, your OLD dating, nofap streaks or your weight lifting / fitness goals. Perseverance is a key to success. Keep at it.

External Validation isn't necessary

Leo has widely been seen as one of the best actors on the planet. Yet he hasn't got an Oscar. This shows you that it is what you DO and who you ARE that means the most. Not symbols of validation.

Seeking External Validation is worthless. Build yourself into a great being and people will soon recognise your greatness.

The Destination is often not as satisfying as the struggle

True satisfaction is overcoming hardship, or the struggle to achieve. One sits atop the mountain and looks at the slopes he climbed with such difficultly and is content. Those placed on top of the mountain so not share such satisfaction.
Iwas thinking along these lines myself when I heard. Well done putting it better than I could. Good on ya.
 

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http://www.ew.com/article/2016/02/29/oscars-2016-chris-rock-opening-monologue-transcript

But what happened this year? What happened? People went mad. Spike got mad and Sharpton got mad and Jada went mad, and Will went mad. Everybody went mad, you know? Jada got mad? Jada says she not coming, protesting. I’m like, “Ain’t she on a TV show?” Jada is going to boycott the Oscars? Jada boycotting the Oscars is like me boycotting Rihanna’s panties. I wasn’t invited.
 
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