"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What Leo's Oscar win taught us

Lozboss

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DJs,

Leo Di Caprio won an oscar last night, 23 years after his first nomination. How is this relevant for DJs you may ask?

Well I shall enlighten you:

Perseverance

Whether its your cold approaches, your OLD dating, nofap streaks or your weight lifting / fitness goals. Perseverance is a key to success. Keep at it.

External Validation isn't necessary

Leo has widely been seen as one of the best actors on the planet. Yet he hasn't got an Oscar. This shows you that it is what you DO and who you ARE that means the most. Not symbols of validation.

Seeking External Validation is worthless. Build yourself into a great being and people will soon recognise your greatness.

The Destination is often not as satisfying as the struggle

True satisfaction is overcoming hardship, or the struggle to achieve. One sits atop the mountain and looks at the slopes he climbed with such difficultly and is content. Those placed on top of the mountain so not share such satisfaction.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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salinechow

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DJs,

Leo Di Caprio won an oscar last night, 23 years after his first nomination. How is this relevant for DJs you may ask?

Well I shall enlighten you:

Perseverance

Whether its your cold approaches, your OLD dating, nofap streaks or your weight lifting / fitness goals. Perseverance is a key to success. Keep at it.

External Validation isn't necessary

Leo has widely been seen as one of the best actors on the planet. Yet he hasn't got an Oscar. This shows you that it is what you DO and who you ARE that means the most. Not symbols of validation.

Seeking External Validation is worthless. Build yourself into a great being and people will soon recognise your greatness.

The Destination is often not as satisfying as the struggle

True satisfaction is overcoming hardship, or the struggle to achieve. One sits atop the mountain and looks at the slopes he climbed with such difficultly and is content. Those placed on top of the mountain so not share such satisfaction.
Iwas thinking along these lines myself when I heard. Well done putting it better than I could. Good on ya.
 

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http://www.ew.com/article/2016/02/29/oscars-2016-chris-rock-opening-monologue-transcript

But what happened this year? What happened? People went mad. Spike got mad and Sharpton got mad and Jada went mad, and Will went mad. Everybody went mad, you know? Jada got mad? Jada says she not coming, protesting. I’m like, “Ain’t she on a TV show?” Jada is going to boycott the Oscars? Jada boycotting the Oscars is like me boycotting Rihanna’s panties. I wasn’t invited.
 
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