"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What Leo's Oscar win taught us

Lozboss

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DJs,

Leo Di Caprio won an oscar last night, 23 years after his first nomination. How is this relevant for DJs you may ask?

Well I shall enlighten you:

Perseverance

Whether its your cold approaches, your OLD dating, nofap streaks or your weight lifting / fitness goals. Perseverance is a key to success. Keep at it.

External Validation isn't necessary

Leo has widely been seen as one of the best actors on the planet. Yet he hasn't got an Oscar. This shows you that it is what you DO and who you ARE that means the most. Not symbols of validation.

Seeking External Validation is worthless. Build yourself into a great being and people will soon recognise your greatness.

The Destination is often not as satisfying as the struggle

True satisfaction is overcoming hardship, or the struggle to achieve. One sits atop the mountain and looks at the slopes he climbed with such difficultly and is content. Those placed on top of the mountain so not share such satisfaction.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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salinechow

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DJs,

Leo Di Caprio won an oscar last night, 23 years after his first nomination. How is this relevant for DJs you may ask?

Well I shall enlighten you:

Perseverance

Whether its your cold approaches, your OLD dating, nofap streaks or your weight lifting / fitness goals. Perseverance is a key to success. Keep at it.

External Validation isn't necessary

Leo has widely been seen as one of the best actors on the planet. Yet he hasn't got an Oscar. This shows you that it is what you DO and who you ARE that means the most. Not symbols of validation.

Seeking External Validation is worthless. Build yourself into a great being and people will soon recognise your greatness.

The Destination is often not as satisfying as the struggle

True satisfaction is overcoming hardship, or the struggle to achieve. One sits atop the mountain and looks at the slopes he climbed with such difficultly and is content. Those placed on top of the mountain so not share such satisfaction.
Iwas thinking along these lines myself when I heard. Well done putting it better than I could. Good on ya.
 

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http://www.ew.com/article/2016/02/29/oscars-2016-chris-rock-opening-monologue-transcript

But what happened this year? What happened? People went mad. Spike got mad and Sharpton got mad and Jada went mad, and Will went mad. Everybody went mad, you know? Jada got mad? Jada says she not coming, protesting. I’m like, “Ain’t she on a TV show?” Jada is going to boycott the Oscars? Jada boycotting the Oscars is like me boycotting Rihanna’s panties. I wasn’t invited.
 
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