"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What kind of services work on improving your looks?

Zircon916

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I know this is a sorta strange question and maybe somewhat afc but are there any professional services out there that work on improving someones looks through maybe hairstyle/makeup/clothing style? Like the services that help models before a photo shoot?

I'm a pretty decent looking guy, maybe above average but no where near a knockout. I know my way around a gym and am a pretty fit guy (5'7, 145lb). In no way am I absolutely ripped or shredded, but I got pretty decent definition.

I'm really looking to change my entire wardrobe, hair style, get rid of my random blemishes so I look model-like smooth. So are there any services that can help me out in this aspect? I don't even know what to look under in the phone book.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zircon916

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Err I didn't mean specific places, I meant what type of places do these services?
 

oakraiderz2

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Uhh...what the hell? Go to the store and try stuff on.
 

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Look through a magazine that serves your particular tastes (Men's Health, GQ, etc.) and start stealing some styles.

Remember: Good Artists Copy, Great Artists Steal ~ Pablo Picasso
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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slickaz

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heard of google? its this place that searchs stuff for you..yeh it works too....
try searching for male stylists in your area.

ps: you wouldnt find one person does the whole list of changes for you.
you're stylist will reccomend wardrobe ideas.
a good hair stylist can reccoment matching hair cuts for you.
a skin specialist can reccomend creams etc for your skin.

or call queer eye for a straight guy
 

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Personal stylist may be what you are looking for :rockon:
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Uhh...what the hell? Go to the store and try stuff on.
It's a valid question, IMO.

I don't have any sense or taste for fashion, matching clothing, trends, etc. When I go shopping by myself, I buy things that are comfortable and that *I* think I look good in.

When you're starting from scratch, it can be difficult to build a decent wardrobe considering you're buying lots of stuff that has to go well with other stuff.
 
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