"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What kind of services work on improving your looks?

Zircon916

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I know this is a sorta strange question and maybe somewhat afc but are there any professional services out there that work on improving someones looks through maybe hairstyle/makeup/clothing style? Like the services that help models before a photo shoot?

I'm a pretty decent looking guy, maybe above average but no where near a knockout. I know my way around a gym and am a pretty fit guy (5'7, 145lb). In no way am I absolutely ripped or shredded, but I got pretty decent definition.

I'm really looking to change my entire wardrobe, hair style, get rid of my random blemishes so I look model-like smooth. So are there any services that can help me out in this aspect? I don't even know what to look under in the phone book.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zircon916

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Err I didn't mean specific places, I meant what type of places do these services?
 

oakraiderz2

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Uhh...what the hell? Go to the store and try stuff on.
 

Rex Man

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Look through a magazine that serves your particular tastes (Men's Health, GQ, etc.) and start stealing some styles.

Remember: Good Artists Copy, Great Artists Steal ~ Pablo Picasso
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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slickaz

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heard of google? its this place that searchs stuff for you..yeh it works too....
try searching for male stylists in your area.

ps: you wouldnt find one person does the whole list of changes for you.
you're stylist will reccomend wardrobe ideas.
a good hair stylist can reccoment matching hair cuts for you.
a skin specialist can reccomend creams etc for your skin.

or call queer eye for a straight guy
 

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Personal stylist may be what you are looking for :rockon:
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Uhh...what the hell? Go to the store and try stuff on.
It's a valid question, IMO.

I don't have any sense or taste for fashion, matching clothing, trends, etc. When I go shopping by myself, I buy things that are comfortable and that *I* think I look good in.

When you're starting from scratch, it can be difficult to build a decent wardrobe considering you're buying lots of stuff that has to go well with other stuff.
 
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